Sex on the beach – Reading time approx: 16 minutes
Having sex on the beach is a wet dream for many. How you put this wish into practice and what to consider, will be covered in this article.
It’s summer, so it’s time for sun, water, fun and … lots of crazy ideas!!
Sex on the beach: good idea or not?
Surely you have already thought about trying sex on the beach. Imagine a lonely beach where you can be alone with your friend. Enjoying the relaxing sound of the waves in the moonlight? Only you two and the sea!
I know it sounds like a cheap clichĂ©, but these words come to mind when I think of a beach sex game. And I also think of the fact that fine sand can get into all sorts of holes. You’ll say you’re going to take a towel or put your clothes on the floor, but that doesn’t matter.
When you think about sex games on the beach, you probably think that you have to try it at least once in a lifetime.
Frequent ideas:
- It will be one of the most romantic and enjoyable moments you have spent with your friend.
- It can only be a prelude until you reach the hotel room.
- You think you’ll find an abandoned beach where no one will see you and you can have fun.
- Swim or chill on the beach until the sun goes down and everyone goes so you can have sex by the sea.
- When you’re in the water, and no-one can see you.
The reality is often more like this:
- After 2-3 strange positions on the sand, you want everything to end as soon as possible. The only thing you think about is a shower to remove the sand that has penetrated everywhere.
- It’s not even an attempt at foreplay. The only thing you’ll do when you arrive in the hotel room is a proper shower and sleep.
- There is no longer an abandoned beach, and if so, the police are nearby.
- You don’t think it was a good place or it feels weird.
- Having sex in the water doesn’t mean no-one sees and no-one notices what’s happening. Children love to dive (so be careful).
Sex in unusual places is a lot of fun. So that we can do it now, let’s look at what you have to consider.
How to have sex on the beach
You can’t spend a few days at sea without having sex at least once at the sea. Away from the crowds and noisy neighbours, you only hear the sea and your partner’s breath.
However, sex on the beach must be your little secret. Therefore, the chosen place must be protected from prying eyes, or other lovers who are also looking for a good place on the beach.
The minimum items needed for some fun on the beach is a blanket, towels, two glasses and some champagne.
Choose the best place
If you have found the right place during the day, try a night walk there to see if the air is clean.
Once you’re sure you’re not bothering anyone, you can get your belongings out of the room to spend the most beautiful love evening you’ve ever experienced.
Remember, if you have been on the beach all day and are tanned, you have to make sure in the evening that the skin is not so burnt that you cannot bear the touch of your partner’s body.
In this case, beach lotion with high protection is ideal for any unpleasant situations.
Beach, peace and sex
Once you arrive at the pleasure scene, you must place your blanket in such a way that the sand does not cause any problems.
Make sure that the wind from the beach does not affect the perfect evening. Afterwards you can serve a little champagne to get into the romantic atmosphere of sex on the beach.
The little gift you bought him today is the best start to a romantic evening by the sea.
You can continue to drink alcohol and really enjoy it. This is the perfect prerequisite for passionate sex outdoors. The start begins without haste, with passion and feeling. When it really gets going, the clothes will come off very quickly.
Extend the sex party as much as possible, because tonight is something special. You can try all oral sex techniques. You can finger them properly or apply these blowjob tips.
Sex on the beach has the advantage that immediately after the end, another game begins. Because after you’ve tried the beach, you’ll continue to go into the water. Not many positions work here, but it is a completely different feeling.
Sex on the beach has the advantage that it can be extended until the morning without boredom or monotony.
The best place to have sex on the beach
If you want to have sex on the beach, you have to make a plan first. If you go to the beach looking for a good place, you need to be hiding enough not to be met by passers-by. In addition, the place should be free enough for you to feel the adrenaline rush.
The best time for sex on the beach
In the early morning come all those who want to capture the first rays of the sun and absorb vitamin D. Therefore, sex in the morning is simply not worth it.
At noon it is far too hot to stay on the beach, and there are still a few people there who love to sizzle in the sun.
So the best time to have sex on the beach is in the evening, when the sun is already setting and most people disappear. Then you can have a good time, but beware of those who go for a romantic walk on the beach.
Pay attention to the sand. No matter how big the sheet is that you’re sitting on, you don’t want to have sand in your genitals.
Even in the perfect place and at the best time, it’s hard to get rid of the sand. Sand in the intimate environment is not a pleasant experience at all. On the contrary, this can hurt when it enters the vagina.
Are you planning a hot weekend with your better half on the beach? In this case, you should know the best sex positions.
Positions for the best sex on the beach
Look for a more secluded corner of the beach and practice your most exciting or romantic fantasies. Create memories that last a lifetime!
Here are some ideal sexual positions for a sexy beach love game. Be sure to try them!
Lotus
It is an intimate location, ideal for erotic evenings on the beach. If the man is flexible, it is worth a try. He sits in the sand with his legs crossed. She has to climb on him, with her feet around his waist. He will put his hands on her hips and help her move.
The rabid dog
This position is a variant of the famous and is perfect for love parties. Sit down on your knees and lean on your elbows. He will take you from behind. One of the advantages of this position is that the partner’s hands are free and can now add some additional stimulation. This ensures a faster orgasm and that’s what we want so as not to be succumbed to.
Immoral offer
This is a more difficult position, but one that is worth it. Knee down, face to face. He will put his left foot forward, with his foot on the sand (as if he were making a marriage proposal). She does the same. Then you lean back slightly to facilitate penetration.
Arc
The bow is a romantic and exciting position and allows the man to kiss and caress his partner. The man is up top.
She lays on his back during the penetration until his legs are touched. He can bend over her to kiss her breasts and coordinate the movements by placing his hands on her hips.
The penetration will be deep and the orgasm will come quickly. If he has not yet come do him a favor and swallow his sperm.
Basket
In this position, the lover sits with outstretched and slightly bent leg to achieve more balance. She will sit in his arms and control the rhythm, but also the depth.
How dangerous is sex on the beach
- The sand um. – Ermm. Ahmmm. Hmmmmm. Where to start? Sand occurs everywhere. Besides, it’s kind of scratchy. And have I told the story that sand is coming in everywhere? This can rob all the fun.
- Small sand creatures – From jellyfish that can be dangerous or even deadly (depending on species), to tiny microbes that can reach areas you never want to reach – there are many things to avoid on the beach.
- Salt water – Salt water dries out the skin. Imagine the effects it has on other areas of the body. You don’t want to know. According to an expert in a TV show, “this will remove your natural lubrication.” Do we need a translation, do I need to say more, you really don’t want that?
- All types of condom incidents – If you really want to have a baby, have sex on the beach. If you have a little buck, avoid the water. The condom slides very easily into the water. Note: Even if you are thinking about sex in the pool … better not. Pool chemicals and hot water are very dangerous. This can quickly damage the condom. And that doesn’t sound funny at all, doesn’t it?
- Infections – There are all kinds of germs, microbes in the water and the list goes on. Not to mention the garbage on the beach, in the sand and under the sand. Many ways you could infect yourself.
- The risk of arrest – As with any action, there is a risk that someone will call the police. And then? Depending on the country, there are different penalties for sex in public.
- Limited positions – There is no real place on the beach and there is no time to try out new and unusual positions in the Kama Sutra in case you think about something like this.
- Time is limited – As I said above, you don’t have all the time in the world. More specifically, you have very little time between the low tide, the return of people and the moment when a crab could bite your ass.
Four things you should know about sex by the sea before you try
- It is NOT legal – Sex in public can get you in trouble with the police. You may be able to try a private beach.
- It can be painful to have – Sex on the beach is risky in many ways. Sex on the beach can also mean wounds caused by sand and reach the private areas. Sunburn can cause headaches if you have opted for sex in the middle of the day. Sex in the water can also get you into trouble. Salt water removes natural or applied lubricants.
- Insects, molluscs and stings – Not only sand can become dangerous if you have sex on the beach. Sand insects, bees or wasps, but also sea molluscs such as jellyfish can hurt you.
- Disease – As if the above was not enough, the sand on the beach is contaminated with faeces. The risk of a sand bacterium getting to where you don’t want it is not extremely high, but it is also not to be disregarded.
Tips for sex on the beach
- Please don’t forget to wear condoms, and don’t forget the sunscreen and a swimsuit when you’re doing the packing.
- It is better to be prepared than to regret that you have omitted something important.
- Never use beach lotion as a lubricant. This weakens and dissolves the latex fiber.
- It is good to equip yourself with a water-based lubricant specially designed for latex condoms.
- An even better idea is to use condoms that are already lubricated with spermicides to provide additional protection.
- A love game in the water brings new sensations compared to those you feel “on land” during intercourse.
- Water comes into contact with the erogenous zones and transmits “showers of pleasure” through the body.
- Avoid sitting directly on the floor, as there is a risk that the sand will cause discomfort. Try a large beach towel or sheets.
- The sand is unpleasant and irritates the skin and can easily reach the genitals.
- Information is important before you get to the point, especially about the bans on the beach (large differences depending on the country).
- In some countries there are laws against sex in public places.
- Even when you’re at sea, so don’t overdo it with alcohol, as sexual performance is impaired.
- Of course, it frees up you inhibitions and leads to relaxation. But it also attacks the central nervous system.
Conclusion
No matter if you have planned all the details for you excursion to the beach, or are just being spontaneous. The sun, the sea and the atmosphere automatically make couples think of eroticism.
You have been waiting for the days when you can take advantage of solitude and enjoy it to the fullest. However, sex on the beach must be approached discreetly.
That’s why you invest a little more time to find the perfect place. If it doesn’t work out directly, just try the next time.
Many couples consider sex on the beach to be the most exciting experience of their lives. It is tempting and passionate and can be really horny. Everyone should try it. But don’t forget that it’s forbidden!
These are all aspects that go hand in hand with this experience.
Action, adrenaline, passion and strong sensations caused by the risk of being caught during the “party”.