Sex games – hot alternatives – Reading time approx: 20 minutes
Sex games are special or unusual variations or actions in bed that provide extra pleasure. Instead of applying the same behavioural need over and over again, couples can enjoy a whole new pleasure.
Sooner or later it happens to all couples. The sex becomes mediocre. Your bed stories all feel the same, you don’t really get in the mood anymore. Or maybe you just want to feel the exciting, sparkling feelings like you had at the beginning of your relationship?
This is exactly why there are countless creative ideas for sex games in bed, the best of which I have gathered together for you here – check them out!
The ideas for sex games – hot alternatives are more than diverse. So you will undoubtedly like at least one or more of these suggestions!
Contents
- The best sex games
- Naked poker game
- Body painting
- Doctoral games
- Role play
- Sex games with Toys
- Dildos (Classic)
- Dildos (for partners)
- Vibrators
- Sex games with clothes
- Sexy Underwear
- High heels in bed
- Sex in costume
- Wild SM Games
- Trust is the be-all and end-all
- SM for beginners
- The biggest No-Go’s in sex games
With sex it’s what is allowed that is only what pleases, and that’s where tastes differ, of course. What some find absolutely hot, others find silly or even a total no-no. It doesn’t always have to be sex outdoors or a threesome.
Ultimately, it’s all about daring and suggesting a few erotic variations to your bed mate.
If you don’t like it to be too explicit, you should just find out in a relaxed conversation how the lover stands on the subject of sex games. Then check what kind would appeal to him personally the most. Whether games with toys, food, or prohibitions – there are no limits to the sex fantasy. Just be creative and open to new things!
Of course you can browse through the ideas presented here together, and let yourself be inspired in a relaxed way 😉
The best sex games
Let’s look at some of the best sex games – hot alternatives:
Naked poker game
A private strip poker game can be a great foreplay and the rules are also very simple. For each of your winnings, your partner must discard a piece of clothing. This provocative game can significantly increase both arousal and impatience!
Body painting
Through this sex game you can combine enjoyment, intimacy and exploring your partner’s body, so you can try plenty of variations with body painting.
To start, you can paint individual body parts of your partner and then print them on paper, or paint shapes on certain body parts and then print them on yourself by getting very close to your partner.
Alternatively, you can also write a sexual favor on your partner’s back and, as soon as he guesses it, perform it on him.
Doctoral games
An old but proven sex game! When you play the doctor, “please lie down” with your partner and then slowly start the ‘examination’.
Again, it is important to build up tension and to reach the actual intimate area late. Gentle touching of your partner’s body slowly but surely increases pleasure.
Role play
If you and your partner are in the mood for anything more unusual, you can of course introduce costumes in the bedroom.
Taking on a different role and staying true to it for a while can be very exciting for both sides.
According to sex surveys, men like to see women dressed in nurse costumes or as stewardesses, and women see men as pilots or vampires.
Sex games with Toys
When it comes to sex games – hot alternatives, toys are a great way to go.
They are probably indispensable in most households. Whether you bring them from your single life into the relationship, buy them together with your partner or want to surprise each other with them – just about every one of us has, or has had one of these little toys.
So these tools are popular, but the world of sex toys is complex. As a beginner, you quickly lose sight of it: what is suitable for couples and how exactly do you use it skillfully in the act?
A small collection of the most popular sex toys for couples may provide a little clarity!
Dildos (Classic)
Dildos sound primarily like a typical “women’s toy”. But not only the woman can have fun with the artificial penis, there are also many ideas in which you can discover your desire together!
There are many different ways that you, as a man can help get even more satisfaction with the use of a dildo.
For example – your partner may dream of being penetrated anally and vaginally, simultaneously.
The dildo now makes this possible, but you don’t have to get involved in a brisk threesome with a stranger. Tip: To make it really moist you can finger her properly before the sex game. Then everything’s going to slip better!
While you penetrate your girlfriend anally or vaginally, you can insert a dildo of sufficient size into the other body opening so that she can experience this form of double penetration up close.
Even while you’re getting used to it orally, one or two dildos can be used for wild dildo games so you can really offer her the full program.
This can not only be a completely new feeling of pleasure for them, but also a damn hot sight for him!
In such dildo games, it is best if you use condoms so as not to contaminate the dildos too much. There are also special toy cleaners that you should use after the lovemaking.
If you are facing small challenges, you can use an ever-larger dildo for your dildo games over time to “fill” your partner.
Secret tip
Not only in a long-distance relationship, the imprint set “Clone-A-Willy” is a good and individual gift, because here your own penis serves as a toy template!
You can do the penis clone alone or playfully with your partner, out comes an individually shaped vibrator made of silicone – the better alternative to the Dick pic; but one that you can feel 😉
By means of a strap-on, she can even take the man from behind in games and take on a role that is otherwise reserved for the man alone. This is especially suitable for men who stand on a dominant partner!
In the same way, a dildo can of course also be used for anal penetration, while your girlfriend blows you or brings you to climax by hand. How far you want to drive your games is always up to you and your partner.
Dildos (for partners)
So since we can already have a lot of fun with the “normal” dildos, there is of course also the variety, which were created especially for games for two!
It looks like a single, long dildo with two stimulatingly shaped ends and can easily satisfy you both at the same time!
Vibrators
If you are curious, whether alone or as a couple, and want to try different sex toys, you should do so and enjoy it.
The couples are also likely to use vibrators.
These small wonder weapons are not only a real stroke of luck in the most intimate places, they are also wonderfully suitable as put-on vibrators.
Whether you drive your partner to the white glow by playfully placing him in different parts of his body, caressing him with it or just holding him to his intimate area for a blink of an eye… There are so many different ways to get each other hot with a vibrator!
In addition, there are vibrators with remote control that want to be the advanced level for couples. You alone have control over your partner’s pleasure, at the touch of a button you can change the strength of these small devices and thus create a mood!
Secret tip: These little toys are already available as “long-distance traffic”! It’s right to hear, because various vibrators, dildos and other toys can be controlled over long distances via an app. So your partner can get you pleasure, even if he is countless miles away!
“It only takes minutes to set up and turns your smartphone into a wireless remote control.”
This app allows you to hand over control to someone miles away. Just let this person download the app and add it as a friend. Then allow them to control your toy from their phone! Sounds exciting doesn’t it.
Sex games with clothes
Sex games with “clothes”? This may sound weird at first glance, but it is simply an umbrella term for some hot ideas that are guaranteed to spoil your boredom!
Sexy Underwear
It’s just a fact: you probably feel quite sexual when you wear attractive flirtatious underwear.
For centuries, these hot specially made garments have been coveted by men and used by women as a sparkling secret weapon. Few people will say no to such a sight, especially if it was done especially for them!
Why don’t you even try to get your partner out of the frame after a long-awaited reunion with such laundry?
If he was on a business trip throughout the week, you should definitely take advantage of this opportunity!
If you pick him up from the airport or train station, he will experience his blue miracle! A trench coat can ensure a film-ready appearance. Underneath you have “random” nothing but your sexy lingerie on.
Stockings and suspenders are ideal for this. When you finally have a short private place with your guy, show him what’s really under the trench coat. He will be so turned on that the journey home cannot pass quickly enough.
Of course, you can also seduce him directly in bed with hot lingerie! There are so many different variations – sometimes more and sometimes less fabric, sometimes transparent and sometimes made of the finest silk… There is certainly something for all tastes, especially if they are so fine for him!
Who can resist?
High heels in bed
Yes, you read quite right! The sexy shoes not only look great in a chic evening dress, they also make themselves great…
Many couples stand on it when you wear your shoes in bed, and they are even brought into the love game in the end!
Imagination also plays a huge role in sexual intercourse – not only in high heels, but in general. But especially with this sparkling extra, it is a driving force.
For example, if women wear the sexy shoes in the bedroom as a surprise, the observer only notices how much the sight fuels him. Countless videos about foot erotica, boot sex & co. are already circulating on the Internet and are very popular.
Further reasons for the stimulating effect of high heels during sex: Actually, shoes do not belong in bed and thus become something forbidden and therefore charming.
The neurologist Vilayanur S. Ramachandran also found that the brain areas of the genitals and feet are directly adjacent to each other, and this can easily lead to an overlap ping and sexual stimulation in the head of the men when looking at beautiful feet in sexy shoes!
The term foot eroticism immediately takes on a completely new meaning, without which we have to let ourselves be retold a foot fetish!
Sex in costume
Or you just live out your carnival fantasies!
Nurse, nun, cowboy or policeman – do you love disguises? But do you find sex in costume a bit strange? Then you may need to build up to this one.
Think about how strippers rob women’s minds.
If you still have inhibitions to perform in full outfit, you can slowly touch yourself by wearing only a cooking apron or tie around your neck during sex, for example.
The loved one can wear high heels (see above) or the veil of a saint. Such accessories are the first step to sex in costume 😉
Wild SM Games
With SM (short for sadomasochism) one first immediately thinks of whips, pain, lacquer and leather. That alone, however, would be a bit clichéd. Because the SM is about much more.
Anyone who has ever blind folded his partner during sex or tied his wrists has already made their first experiences towards SM.
Most SM-learners are mainly concerned with the games involving dominance and submission. Thus, power and submission are the sweet torment and lustful redemption – all of this definitely has its erotic appeal.
The game with dominance doesn’t always have to be about licking boots and whiplashes – it’s enough, for example if you let your wrists be tied or just let him do it. How far and violently you get into this topic is ultimately up to you.
So, SM can definitely be a sparkling newcomer to your love life!
Trust is the be-all and end-all
Important: SM only works if there is absolute trust between the partners. It is precisely this particular type of sex that presupposes that one respects the other and knows the limits of the other.
No matter which of the following ideas for SM beginners you want to try, whether bondage games or spanking: It is only allowed when both like it. This is extremely important here in particular, because together we are prepared to venture into new territory.
So please do not pretend to be interested in sexual practices for the sake of your partner if you do not feel a tendency – or at least curiosity! In particular, we women are “happy” to be persuaded to do things, because we want to prove our love to our partner.
But one thing is certain: love – and relationship – only does good, when it is enjoyable for both of you. And it’s just the same with sex games – hot alternatives!
SM for beginners
If you’re new to this area, it might be advisable not to get into it straight away. Slowly move forward. Start off with some Dirty Talk or Sexting.
Increase your games when you both like it.
I have here a small collection of sparkling ideas that are especially suitable for beginners! Just be inspired, maybe with your partner and be open to new things!
With the sensory deprivation you have a good start, which at first doesn’t even feel so much like SM!
And yet it has a lot to do with it, because the SM is by and large about the interplay of dominance and submission – this works perfectly when one partner is blind folded and is thus at the mercy of the other.
Sensory deprivation means exactly that, one of your senses is deprived of its natural bearing. This can not only be the ability to see, but also the hearing can be prevented by earplugs with music.
Thus, feeling alone is possible, which makes the erotic experiences particularly intense. Ultimately, we often close our eyes when kissing to make the sensory experience feel stronger.
To connect your eyes, you can choose to use a cotton cloth that is easy to tie and sits tight. Silk cloths are not suitable as they slip slightly (an eye mask made of soft leather is also recommended). These models do not have a disturbing knot on the back of the head and are therefore more pleasant.
Tickle Sex
One of the best ideas for beginners is the so-called tickle sex or tickle torture.
Conveniently, a person’s tickling spots (for example, soles of the feet, the inside of the thighs, armpits, and elbows) match their most erogenous zones. Teasing your partner may sound harmless, but it can also be a game of power and a kind of erotic torture.
If the person being tickling is tied up and cannot escape the sensation, this works especially well. Anyone who has ever been tickled without being able to defend themselves, knows that tickling can cause real pain at some point.
Of course, tickles and other caresses should alternate, that way the person being seduced is torn between winces, laughter and arousal. And: Do not be too relentless when your guy laughs and pleads for mercy!
A good start that doesn’t immediately beat the rigors, but literally takes your partner’s breath away!
Sex with Bondage
Also an exciting practice for beginners: sex with bondage.
Bondage has long been the beginning for many SM supporters, bondage is not an SM at all, for others it is the ultimate SM kick.
It’s handcuffs or ropes. But be careful: don’t lace up too tightly, otherwise your hands and feet will become numb. The most convenient types are padded leather shackles, and these are available in any sex shop, or simply on Amazon.
The pleasure for the bound person is that they can completely let themselves fall into their feelings and accept what the partner does with her.
A special style of play is the X-shaped St. Andrew’s Cross. This means that the submissive person is tied with spread legs, and outstretched arms (for example to the bed posts).
Here, of course, trust again plays a big part, you will only be able to relax if you know that your partner would not use this situation 100% against your will.
Heat and Cold
A game of heat and cold is also erotic and can slowly introduce you to the mixture between pain and pleasure!
When using fire play, your partner’s body is drizzled with warm wax. Household candles are best suited for this, as their melting point is rather low, and the liquid wax does not get too hot.
Start carefully and give at the beginning from at least one meter height wax drops on the partner. Start in more sensitive places and slowly grope yourself. When this game is done blindfold, you will quickly notice how your partner reacts!
But ice cream is also a popular SM toy. In combination with a bondage game.
Gently tie your partner’s hands together so that he can’t defend himself and then let the ice cubes pass over his body.
You can work it closer and closer to your partner’s central pleasure zones. Slowly, of course so that he has to suffer a little. So he has to wait until you redeem him and finally touch him where he needs it most 😉
The biggest No-Go’s in sex games
Sex games – hot alternatives can be exciting – they provide variety and highlight your creative side. But be careful that you don’t beat the rigors, otherwise the beloved enjoyment of the game threatens to break again quickly!
Don’t plan every evening down to the smallest detail
You’ve already got through the Secretary-Chef game. The doctoral game too? Then on to the riding instructor scenario! Just don’t! You can’t and shouldn’t do sex games like a to-do list.
This seems unnatural and can destroy the desire. You should either come together and spontaneously to new ideas, or plan special evenings together. But a partner who comes around the corner every two days with something new seems rather exhausting than attractive after a while.
There has to be so much time!
It is actually self-evident that the sex game – hot alternatives involves a prelude. In the zeal of the battle, however, your lust can pass with you with great excitement about the nurse costume.
However, make sure that your partner is in the same mood as you. Once you’re ready to get started you may find that she needs a little more time.
You need to have a degree of open eyes, and some sensitivity here.
Don’t just think of you
SM games are very popular and above we have already seen some ideas that you can also try out as “inexperienced SM players”.
However, make certain that not only one partner is in control, otherwise it will quickly become monotonous. In addition, one of the partners may feel unfairly treated.
Everything happens voluntarily!
If your partner doesn’t agree to a sex game or it’s simply not his case that day, then you should always accept it.
Suggest a possible groping or put this fantasy aside. Of course, it’s part of a relationship to meet the other, but if you have to convince first, then it won’t be fun for you later!
Sex games – hot alternatives; Our conclusion:
Sex games – hot alternatives are a wonderful idea to bring some variety into our love life. They are diverse and full of new, colorful ideas – there is certainly something for everyone. With a little curiosity, lust and the right partner, new erotic hours are waiting for you!