Outdoor Sex – Reading time approx: 20 minutes
Does the thought of wild outdoor sex make your skin tingle, and make you look longingly out of the window? Are you tired of only doing it on the kitchen table or in the bathtub? What are you waiting for, grab your partner and head off into the wild!
The best places for a hot night, and what you should consider – can all be found here!
So lets explore the forbidden lust, and perhaps get set for the hottest summer of all time!
Why are we drawn outside?
Outdoor sex is just horny – plain and simple! Especially when you are on the road. A lot of snuggling, and the desire slowly increases. And it would be such a pity to have to wait until you’re back in bed. By then all that hot horny lust has disappeared, and you end up with a ‘film night’ instead.
Outdoor sex is associated with completely different sparkling feelings. The risk of getting caught also increases the attraction, thus increasing the enjoyment.
One might think that it stirs the animal instincts deep within us, and thus awakens our hidden passions. The freedom to have sex whenever and wherever you want gives us a huge lustful kick!
How to persuade your partner to have sex outdoors
So you really want to have sex with your partner in unusual places. But you don’t really know how to get started?
Talk about the topic casually, without asking directly. If your partner jumps at the idea of outdoor sex, and finds the whole thing interesting, then take the next step.
Or the next time you’re out walking in the park, just look over at the bushes. Then casually say “Nobody would see us if we were to do it right now, in there!” You can then quickly take note of their reaction to see what they really think of the idea.
With a bit of luck (and if you’re both open to it ), it turns out spontaneous and you don’t have to worry about it anymore. However, it is always advisable to plan sex outdoors, wherever possible. That way, you can have everything prepared just in case of emergency.
And that’s exactly what we are coming to now!
The right preparation for outdoor sex
Of course, it’s horny if you go over the top, and even turn it up a notch when the pleasure is high. But you will quickly notice that the sex is much more relaxed if you think about a few things beforehand.
Once everything has been clarified, nothing stands in the way of lovemaking outdoors! I recommend starting out with a bit of Dirty Talk, as this will definitely increase the appeal!
Do you want to give your partner a really good blowjob in the midst of nature? Then don’t forget to take something to wipe it off, or be ready to swallow!
The right clothes
So you’re up for the challenge, and it’s going to be fast and unobtrusive. Therefore, it’s vitally important that your clothes are suitable for the task at hand.
The best fit isn’t only to go for weather-proof clothing (so you don’t run the risk of catching a sniffle after the hot sex), but also choose clothes that make the most important body parts easily accessible. Thus still allowing you to cover up quickly in an emergency!
For women therefore, dresses and skirts are the best recommendations here. Of course you can always leave your panties off if the weather is appropriate.
Also you can go for airy underwear, which requires little effort to “give the man access”, as the need arises!
For men, it doesn’t necessarily have to be the biggest pair of jogging pants found in their closet. Zippered trousers can be more practical than a pair of jeans with a belt and a complicated button.
And again the following applies – leaving off the underwear can be very worthwhile. Just go commando!
Remember that your clothes may get dirty, so it is not recommended to roll around on the forest floor. Certainly not if you’re wearing your favourite dress, particularly if you plan to wear it again.
On the beach or in the outdoor pool you have much easier options. A bikini or a swimsuit are easily removed.
The right substrate
It’s quite simple really. I don’t need to tell you that you shouldn’t lie on top of an anthill if you’re in the forest. Equally, if you’re on the beach you don’t want to be lying directly on pebbles or stones.
Depending on the location, it is equally important to look for a suitable (and comfortable) spot. After all, your adventure should be as hot as possible. You don’t want to have to pause because you have a pain in the back – try explaining that away when you yell for help!
It is also important to protect the ‘golden areas’, and this is particularly important for women more than men.
I can ALWAYS recommend a pad here, before you get any dirt where only your partner should be entering! But more on that later.
So if a wild night on the beach is planned, or in the forest, it is always best to pack a blanket or towel to take on your adventure. Of course, if it’s spontaneous and you just don’t have anything like that at hand, then you can always use a sweater or T-shirt.
The main thing is to enjoy the sex without pain caused by a hard ground; and you certainly don’t want the danger of dirt or sand getting somewhere it shouldn’t!
The best positions for outdoor sex
Of course, it’s up to you about exactly how you plan to do it. However, there are positions that are much better suited in certain places than others. After all, you don’t want to be discovered, and you want the ability to quickly “untie” yourself in an emergency.
Here you will find a small collection of sex positions that are particularly suitable for sex in the wild. Nevertheless, you can still try out others for yourself, to find out what’s best for you.
Sex standing up
Sex standing up is great for the forest or in dense bushes. In the field or on the beach you will probably attract more attention than you want. Therefore, other positions would be more suitable.
The man and woman stand upright, buttocks and pelvis are firmly pressed together. She turns her back on him, he holds her hands with outstretched arms and penetrates her from behind. The woman can also rely on an object (such as a tree) to keep her balance more easily.
This position also has the advantage that you don’t have to worry about an uncomfortable ground!
But be careful: don’t lie down for too long after sex. Due to the physical exertion and orgasm, you may accidentally fall asleep, and you don’t want that to happen.
Sex sitting
This position is colloquially called “The Rocking Horse”.
He sits down in the tailor’s seat and leans backwards so that he can support himself well with his arms. The woman sits astride of his lap facing him.
He then tightens his hip with her thighs and determines the pace and depth of penetration. If he leans against an object, he can relieve his arms and spoil his partner with his hands.
If you have a towel around your hips and don’t make too many wild moves, it will be hard to tell from a distance whether you’re having hot sex or just cuddling!
Sex lying down
Most standard sex positions probably take place lying down. This way you have the advantage that you are difficult to discover from a distance. Thus you remain almost invisible in a field or a meadow that has tall grass.
My personal choices are two positions that are particularly suitable for this!
1. The glowing juniper
Burning passion! The woman makes herself comfortable on her back, with her legs open. The man glides between her knees, stretches out his legs and lifts her pelvis slightly to penetrate her. This position may need a little practice at the beginning, but once you are “perfectly aligned”, it works wonders!
2. Missionary Position
Quite classic: He lies on her and she closes her legs tightly or spreads them wide as he penetrates her. Close body contact stimulates the clitoris, while the closed or open legs provide varying degrees of deep vaginal stimulation. Intense eye contact and unobtrusive sex are just some of the advantages!
Sex from behind – Doggy style
Last but not least: The good old classic “doggy position”.
In the classic doggy-style version, the woman kneels on all fours, the man kneels behind her and penetrates from behind. The G-spot can get extra stimulation than with other sex positions, and the man is allowed to decide the tempo for himself.
Be aware, however that this position is likely to be noticeable wherever people are. So this one is more for remote forest clearings than in the outdoor pool or on the beach. Do you want to try something special? Try it as a change!
Outdoor sex – Plan B
In an emergency, you probably won’t be able to save much one way or the other. However, you should always have a Plan B up your sleeve, in case you are caught.
I’ve already mentioned this above, and it will become the saviour of the day if you want to cover naked body parts quickly.
Assure the intruder that everything is fine and you just wanted to set off anyway. Just remember not be loud or aggressive.
In most cases, such a catch is extremely unpleasant for both sides. So it’s best you clear the field as quickly as possible, and do not start a detailed discussion.
The best places for outdoor sex
Let’s get to the heart of this article!
Logically, some places are better suited to lovemaking than others. However, you should still pay attention to what’s possible and where your next trip could lead you. Let me explain more!
Water sex
Which place is better for getting wet than a huge lake or large body of water?
You’re swimming or splashing, you’re getting closer. Your hands are virtually invisible under water and can do whatever they want. As long as you stay completely calm at the top, the purest volcano can simmer under the surface of the water!
But also direct sex is something very special in the cool wetness. The further away you are from prying eyes, the more you can live out your lust.
But beware: As already mentioned, you have to pay attention to possible spectators. At a small bathing lake in the forest, there will most probably not be as much going on as in swimming pool. But you should still look for a hidden place and don’t drive it in the middle. That’s why it’s best to try to have sex in the morning – there aren’t a lot of people that way.
Also pay attention to your stability at high swell/tide. You can quickly be driven away from the shore by the current or torn down by a nasty wave. This won’t only lead to nasty injuries, but it’s also an ice-cold mood killer.
In the outdoor pool
The skimpy swimwear invites you to caress each other and feel each other’s body. In addition, the most important body parts are tantalizingly hidden under water.
Sex in the swimming pool is definitely very common and is almost certainly arousing for either one of you. In addition to the pleasantly warm water that surrounds your bodies, you both feel the tingling kick of possibly being caught.
Whether in the locker room, on the toilet or simply under water, you will surely find a hidden place!
Don’t forget – you’re definitely not the only ones who came up with the idea of a love game in the water.
As a result, the bathers now pay close attention to what the visitors of the bath are doing. In addition, if you closely scan your surroundings, you will notice that cameras are installed in many places. In some outdoor pools there are even underwater cameras, where it is almost impossible to have unseen fun.
So it’s better to check out the surroundings for a few minutes rather than rush wildly at each other.
On the beach
Sex on the beach sounds great to many. Listening to the sound of the sea, feeling the warm sand on the body, experiencing picturesque sunsets. You can make yourself comfortable at a campfire at a late hour – this will boost sexual feelings all by itself.
Whether lying down or sitting – maybe even standing – here almost all doors are open for you. Hidden behind dunes or in a bay, you are protected from prying eyes, and you can also feel the sun on your skin.
But beware: as mentioned earlier, sand goes virtually everywhere. In order to protect you and your best pieces, it is best not to roll in the sand directly. Just take a towel as a base.
And don’t forget: it’s not just your bodies that get hot during the sex act! Use a light sunscreen to avoid getting sun-burned after the adventure.
Attention during sex in the water:
As mentioned above, you have to pay attention to a lot more than in the bedroom when you are having outdoor sex. But just remember, that’s the exciting thing!
Water, for example, is able to wash off vaginal fluid and can therefore quickly lead to painful frictions. Condoms also slip through the cool wetness much more easily, and chlorine makes the material porous meaning holes can appear.
So if you don’t want your leisure adventure to end with an unwanted pregnancy, doubly prevent it for safety, or leave the underwater simply for handjobs.
Especially in pools or chlorine-containing waters, germs or irritants can enter the vagina and lead to inflammation or painful irritation. At the slightest sign that something doesn’t fit down there, simply get out of the water and take a break.
In the park
You go for a walk, get completely relaxed and enjoy nature. But then all of a sudden your thoughts go wild in your head, and you want more as the desire rises.
I would always advise against sex during the day in a public park, without protection or bushes. The danger of being discovered here is simply too high to ‘float’ in the middle of the lawn.
However, if you are there in the evening, or even at night, and have found a place where you are reasonably hidden, then nothing stands in the way of your adventure! After all, what could be more beautiful than sex under the starry sky?
But beware: as with most of the places, pay attention to how loud you are. You’re certainly not the only night owl out there. At worst, someone is going to be calling the police for disturbance of the peace. Or maybe even an ambulance, as they thought they had heard fight cries.
So: grit your teeth and enjoy yourselves ‘silently’.
In the forest
A forest certainly offers various secluded spots, such as moss areas. High seats, benches or trees are good. The best are birch trees because their bark is not too rough. At night of course, sex in nature develops into an adventure. The many sounds trigger an exciting tingling sensation all by themselves.
But be careful, if you get too close to the paths. It’s much better to get a little deeper in the undergrowth than to be caught by a jogger in the morning.
And beware, beetles, ants or other creepy crawlies could be there too. And that would turn your sex adventure into a bad experience!
It is best to avoid the twilight, because at this time most animals are active – even the dangerous ones! An anti-mosquito spray and a decent base are also helpful.
After all, only your partner should be allowed to explore your most intimate places!
In the field
You probably won’t find a fluffy bed in the cornfield. But you could try to make yourself as comfortable between the stalks as you can.
Especially with high plants like corn or wheat there is little chance that you can be discovered from outside. To do this, push some stalks flat with your underlay, then you can lie halfway comfortable on it.
Doggy Style is the best place here, as it gives your bodies as little contact with the prickly soil as possible.
But beware of course, no farmer will be best pleased if he learns that someone has trampled in his field. In the best case, you are already over the mountains and far away. So try to do as little damage as possible and not leave any big traces.
And if you hear a combine harvester or similar large agricultural machinery, it would probably be smart to get on out of there!
On the balcony
It takes a lot less stress and preparation here than in most of the public places. After all, your balcony is still part of your apartment and is practically still your home.
A sun lounger, a chair or simply a blanket on the floor is the perfect love nest!
But beware: Even if you are well protected here, remember that you can still be seen and heard! Minimize your volume and use a position where you are lying down rather than standing.
Otherwise, the next meeting with the neighbours could be a little bit uncomfortable.
In the office
Sex in the office doesn’t just sound like an exciting, forbidden adventure – that’s exactly what it can be!
Outside of view – and listening to all colleagues, one is happy to look forward to some change from the normal bedroom sex. Don’t forget to treat one another to a break of a slightly different kind.
During office sex you have the opportunity to show a bit of sex fantasy, and put aside your fears and inhibitions. You will notice that this makes the sex even more exciting!
But beware: a love game in the workplace can become an immediate reason for dismissal if you get caught! Pay close attention to whether you are really alone. Check that you’re not doing it directly in front of a camera, or that someone is likely to come into your room.
Even if it’s not carried on directly with the boss, do you still want to look your colleague in the eye tomorrow. Particularly if they bursts in, in the middle of the act?
On the train
While having sex on the train, you can’t mess about for a long time like you can in the forest, but it can still be a sparkling experience!
Squeeze into the back seat or into an empty compartment. Massage your pleasure points with your hands or spoil each other with your mouth.
If you want to go all the way, then you can disappear for a quickie together in the toilet. But remember to enter and leave the cabin in a time-delayed manner; otherwise you are likely to get some unwanted attention.
But beware: you can often find cameras on trains. They are not monitored around the clock, but those who still like to be filmed should stay away from them.
It’s best to make sure that you can play the innocent couple quickly in an emergency, clothes are best.
A compartment at the very back of the train, or at least where not so many people have to go through, is definitely recommended.
Is that allowed at all?
As with many things that are fun, the answer here is mostly no (unfortunately).
In principle, outdoor sex is not allowed, as other people can be disturbed by it. If they feel harassed, it is considered a public annoyance.
Remember, sexual acts in public are considered a criminal offence. Anyone who violates this and is caught can face a fine, or even a custodial sentence.
Unfortunately for us, this means that outdoor sex is included and therefore illegal.
However, there are exceptions where sex is not prohibited in nature. It is important that you are not out to create a nuisance; so you do not let yourself be caught/wanting to be caught.
Another reason to be careful, but also one that makes for more exciting tingling.
Our conclusion:
Sex in the wild takes us back to our roots and provides a huge amount of variety in your love life. This comes through the many exciting possibilities.
If you pay attention to a few little things and know how to do it, then nothing stands in the way of some summer fun!
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