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A multiple orgasm is a great feeling. Many men and women dream of it, but many don’t manage to experience this wonderful climax. Well that is about to change! In this article, you will learn how to achieve multiple orgasms in a targeted manner.
The proverb “too much of the good stuff” is sometimes true… But is this also the case with orgasms? Of course not! There are really no limits to the joy of multiple orgasms.
The question is, of course, how can you achieve several orgasms in a row?
What are multiple orgasms anyway?
Multiple orgasms are sexual climaxes that occur one after the other. Once the orgasm is reached, the sex continues. As a rule, no pause is taken. During sex with multiple orgasms, the physical sensation is particularly intense for both partners.
Men and women are fundamentally different in terms of sex. While women do not have ejaculation (except for squirting), men are usually “finished” after peaking. The physical exhaustion sets in, and the penis goes soft. After all, the job is done and the seeds are on their way to the finish line.
That sounds perfectly reasonable. For good sex, however, it is rather not satisfactory. Especially if the woman has not come. Women have a great need to experience sex properly, including orgasms.
If that doesn’t happen, it often leads to frustration. This applies equally to women and men.
Failure to orgasm multiple times can lead to sexual frustration
In any partnership, sexual gratification is crucial sooner or later. Before we dedicate ourselves to multiple orgasms, lets get back to basics and make sure you are clear on this.
Take the pressure off or there’s no climax
Please don’t try to force multiple orgasm with coercion or a special sex technique. Relax! Try to implement some of this information.
If it works – great! If not, that’s not a problem. When trying out new things, it is always possible that something could go wrong. You can certainly laugh about it later on!
Good preparation is the be-all and end-all
One of the biggest secrets to even getting to orgasm is feeling good with your partner in the current situation. This applies, whether it is one orgasm or several.
Make sure the environment is right. Go for a feel-good atmosphere. Depending on your preferences, this can mean a few different things, such as:
- tidy room
- fresh bed linen
- relaxing music
- a bit of alcohol (for drunk sex?)
- candlelight.
It’s not that important to men. If the woman feels safe, the man will also have a great sexual experience (such as using these great blowjob tips). So we have to prepare and give the best:
- be freshly showered
- use good-smelling perfume
- wear matching clothes
- mentally adjust to a positive mode
- smile more and look into their eyes
- change your voice, whisper in their ear, and maybe even try some “Dirty Talk“.
Have you never come?
Many women don’t have the problem of peaking at all. But for some, they can rarely live out their lust, let alone have had the oportunity to have experienced multiple orgasms.
There is no easy solution to this, but you already knew that. Often it is advisable to find a very understanding partner who does not expect an orgasm from you.
For many men, the subject is unpleasant and you don’t even know that the climax isn’t the most important thing about sensual pleasure.
Often it is due to the lack of knowledge of men. They are too focused on penetration and forget the most important points in satisfying women.
The vulva, and especially the clitoris, must be given a lot of attention. Proper licking of the erogenous zones increases the chance of an orgasm enormously.
Through good fingering even female ejaculation can be achieved.
How often can a woman come, one after the other?
Depending on the woman, most can come between 3 and 10 times in a row. The multiple orgasms are always experienced with varying degrees of intensity. It takes different lengths for the arousal to reach the maximum point.
How often can a woman come every day?
A woman can have sex 2 to 4 times a day. Accordingly, she could come up to 40 times. But frankly, this is very unrealistic. The more often she is brought to orgasm, the less arousal she feels.
At some point, it’s just too much for the body. More sex does not always mean more pleasure!
How women can come several times during sex
Now let’s look at how a woman can come several times in a row.
1. Free your mind
Don’t think about your goal (i.e. orgasm) all the time, if you focus too much on it, the whole action could be insanely forced and exhausting.
Just focus on what feels good to you, and the rest will usually follow by itself!
2. Train the pelvic floor
Make sure you’re in the best shape down there by doing regular pelvic floor exercises. Why? Because if you just break down the orgasm, it’s nothing more than a muscle contraction of your pelvic muscles.
The more trained your pelvic floor muscles are, the more intense the contractions and thus your orgasms will feel more powerful.
3. More foreplay for better experience
Good foreplay increases the desire! Now that you’re naked, don’t shy away from sending your partner down and telling him exactly what you want from him!
For example, he can satisfy you orally for a while, always with small breaks. If you get aroused slowly, the arousal will also last longer and his tongue will also feel better than manual stimulation as it is strong, soft and flexible.
Remember, foreplay is a great way to pretty much guarantee multiple orgasms.
4. Find the right point
A good tip for achieving the first orgasm is clitoral stimulation. This should usually lead to a very satisfying first orgasm.
However, the site becomes extremely sensitive after the first orgasm is reached using clitoral stimulation, and therefore it is advisable to continue with the stimulation of the G-spot.
When she has reached the next orgasm, it is advisable to switch to a different position, such as ‘Doggy Style’ or ‘Cowgirl’, because in these positions he naturally touches and stimulates the desired area.
Men and multiple orgasms – is that even possible?
Orgasms in men are often monotonous, aren’t they?
It doesn’t have to be. There are ways and means as to how men can really achieve multiple orgasms. But this is not easy. Let’s look at the three possibilities in detail.
1. Ejaculate inside
If he is on the verge of orgasm, ejaculation must be prevented. Thus, several orgasms are possible. Here are some techniques that need to be tried out:
a) Press the Jen Mo Point
The Jen Mo Point lies between the anus and the testicles. This is where the path runs from the prostate to the penis. This region is also known as a million-dollar point.
If this channel is blocked, no sperm can flow. The result: the orgasms remain dry. The feeling is, by the way, hardly distinguishable for the man from a “normal” orgasm.
What happens when you press the Jen Mo point? The ejaculate is looking for a different way. It later comes out of your body via the urethra. Incidentally, this is completely harmless.
b) Pulling testicles down
By pulling down the scrotum, the outflow of blood from your penis is stopped. It can reduce ejaculation. Injaculation sometimes takes place.
The aim of this technique, however, is for men to achieve multiple orgasms. The technique acts a bit like a penis ring, and can keep the erection going for longer.
2. Endure longer with ‘Edging’
By using Edging, the climax is simply delayed. The man approaches orgasm several times without exceeding the “point-of-no-return”.
Here are some tips that can help to make it easier to do that.
a) Acorn pinching
When the point is almost reached, pinch with your index and ring finger into the penis dome. This triggers a stimulus that makes you a little more unexcited. Premature ejaculatory effusion is thus avoided.
b) Take a break
The most practical way to get away with this is to take a short break. This does not mean pulling the penis out directly, but making it a little slower, or forgoing further shocks for the time being.
You can also discuss this with your partner. It will give you more time.
3. Preventing ejaculation to reach multiple orgasm
An advanced option for the man is to do without “spraying” altogether. That does not mean, by the way, that no orgasm is possible. On the contrary, multiple orgasms become possible.
The man completely frees himself from the pressure of ejaculation. In this variant, the man comes differently.
These are rather “whole-body orgasms”. In the spiritual Tantra teaching, the retention of bodily fluids is equally essential.
In English, this type is called “Semen Retention”. You can achieve multiple orgasms, whether with your partner or during masturbation.
Sex positions for multiple highlights
Do you wonder which sex positions are particularly good for multiple orgasms? We’ve created a small list for you to let off steam:
- Doggy style, whilst lying down
- Missionary position, keeping very close
- The 69 position, especially good for women
- The tab position (it can set the optimal angle)
In addition, all other sex positions are suitable for multiple orgasm. It is best to try out several different positions. After all, who doesn’t like trying? What is it they say… “variety is the spice of life”!
Our conclusion on multiple orgasms
As we reach the conclusion of this article, it becomes very clear that there are several ways to achieve multiple orgasms, both for men and women.
So here are our final words on this sexy subject. Remember, the more open you are to new experiences in the bedroom, the more likely you are to achieve multiple orgasms. Ultimately, it’s just about doing what’s fun and simply letting go!
So what are you waiting for? Free your mind, get relaxed and comfortable, and work those bodies. And you will soon reap the rewards, and make some great improvements to your sex life, by achieving multiple orgasms.