Squirting is by no means something that everyone has experienced in their sex life – indeed some of us have never even heard of it. So, in this article we are going to provide you with some useful information about the world’s greatest orgasm (feel free to join in)! For most it’s the most horny thing you can experience during sex, but of course everyone’s experience of it is different.
What is squirting
Squirting – or to give it its official title ‘female ejaculation’ – occurs when there is an expulsion of fluid from the urethra that comes as a result of sexual stimulation, normally occurring during orgasm. Despite varying theories about the content of the fluid, it does differ from urine, and is often described as “sweet tasting” with a consistency of watered-down milk, however the exact composition of the fluid still remains something of a mystery!
The amount of ‘squirt’ liquid produced differs, from just a few drops for some women, to some producing a whole stream of fluid, with some women even experience a ‘spraying’ orgasm which is much more intense – and a lot wetter!! Also, the sensation that comes from the ‘squirt’ will differ from woman to woman, however one thing is for certain, when combined with the passionate sensations that come from sexual pleasure, it makes for an amazing orgasm.
Can any woman squirt?
In theory, the vast majority of women can (or have the ability to) squirt. If you haven’t already ‘squirted’ then it’s always fun to give it a try. Also, don’t forget it is just as exciting for the partner to make a woman come this way, so why not get some practice in It’s a fun and exciting quest that you can go on together, possibly discovering new techniques and positions along the way.
Remember, it’s the enjoyment and excitement of sex that is the most important part, so just stay relaxed and don’t force it. It’s not a goal to be achieved, but it’s a super bonus if you get it right – so the more you practice, the more you’ll enjoy it, and the better the ‘squirt’ (just don’t forget the towel)!
How do you find your G-spot?
So while you are getting all this practice in, you will hopefully discover the G-spot along the way (if you haven’t already). In theory, it shouldn’t be very hard to find – yet a lot of people haven’t found it yet, neither with their partner nor by themselves.
The G-spot itself lies about 3 to 5 cm inside the vagina, at the front (towards the belly), and feels slightly different to the surrounding tissue, as it has a more ribbed texture. If you want to stimulate the G-spot with your fingers it’s best to bend it – better known as the “come here” technique. Most women will suddenly feel a difference in the sensation if you are able to stimulate it in the right way, and at the right speed – so again it’s time to get some practice in (if you’re not already worn out by now)!
Different ways to stimulate your G-spot
Whilst you can of course stimulate the G-spot with your fingers, there are also a number of different toys on the market that can make it even easier to do – in fact most toys can be used, however some are better than others. It’s just a case of finding the best toy for you, it’s simply a case of trial and error (and lots more practicing along the way). The easiest to use are the G-spot vibrators, which are more recognisable by their shape, in deed some are even called ‘squirt vibrators’! You will easily recognise these sex toys by their curved lance, often including a ‘button’ or a blunt thickened end. This type of shape makes the G-spot easier to hit, while the special end ensures optimal stimulation.
Relaxation is key
However you chose to approach squirting, and whichever technique you go for, the most important thing to remember is relaxation. Take the time to discover it together (or alone), and don’t put yourself under any pressure – relax and focus on the feeling.
How does it feel for you? Don’t be afraid to give clues, some women love clitoral stimulation, while others prefer to have their G-spot firmly stimulated. Take the time to discover what works best for you, and what gives you the best overall sexual experience – remember, the better the experience, the better the pleasure!
It is also very important not to feel embarrassed about squirting. In some cases the feeling can be very intense – so intense in fact, that you don’t feel able to let it go – but that’s just the point – you should let it go. Never feel insecure about the wetness – it’s not necessary, discuss those feelings together, and make squirting part of your hot steamy sessions!
G-spot orgasm
Some women will find it easier to squirt if they have done it before. If it happens to you for the first time it may feel a little strange at first, indeed you may experience a sudden sensation that feels like you are going to urinate. It can be hard to overcome this feeling, but just remember to relax! If you’ve been to the toilet beforehand, then you won’t have to worry about it. Just lay back, relax and see what happens – and remember, it’s useful to put a towel underneath before you get going, as you never know what may happen!
Above all else, ‘squirting’ is exciting and fun, and the voyage of discovery is even more fun. Enjoy your body and all the feelings that go with it. Whether you end up squirting or not, the most important thing is that you enjoy yourself!