Anilingus, also called Rimming, is an erotic practice. The butt, and anus of the partner are tuned with the tongue and mouth. Due to the many nerve endings in the intestinal exit, this technique has a very erotic effect. The method is suitable for hetero and homosexual couples.
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“If you don’t want sex, you can lick me by the ass!” sounds like a critical situation in bed at first, but rimming is something you can enjoy!
Because Anilingus (translated as: after licking) is not really widespread and for many the term is not even common (except on porn videos), but can lead to a fiery change in your love life!
So, what exactly is it, what’s it all about, and how you can try out this special technique with your partner – you can find out more in this article!
Contents
- What exactly is it?
- After lick = Women’s Matter?
- The first time Anilingus – What you need to know!
- First introduce the partner, then the tongue!
- The right preparation for rimming
- Tips for your hot rimming experience!
- Slow pre-pressing
- Use your breath!
- G-spot massage for him
- Don’t leave out other regions!
- No-Go’s while anal licking
- The right positions for Anilingus
- Risks with Anilingus
What exactly is it?
This practice has many different names, some of which you may already know them by, for instance: Rimjob, Rimming, Tongue Anal or simply after licking, they are all related to the same theme.
However, this always means the same thing: in the case of anilingus, either partner licks the ass of the other partner, or stimulates it with the tongue and lips.
Of course, the human anus is not primarily a sexual organ. Nevertheless, it has played a major role in human sexuality for a millennium, particularly in porn videos.
No wonder, in the region there are numerous nerve endings that react sensitively when they are licked for example. From this point of view, it is definitely not wrong to speak of a very erogenous zone.
As with the subject of anal, there are, of course, many for which this practice is absolutely out of the question. Some have never tried it and are disgusted by it, others don’t have a suitable partner or simply don’t get horny on it, and some have only seen it on a video.
On the other hand, however, more and more women and men discover the excitable ass licking style for themselves and move through it surprisingly quickly to orgasm. After-licking is by no means just a practice for females!
Anilingus can also be a gentle preparation for anal without pain, or to find out for yourself whether you are even on “games from behind”. Whatever happens, it’s important to let yourself be free.
After lick = Women’s Matter?
The first thing you think about when you hear men and anilingus in the same sentence is probably some gay movie. But a man who stands on stimulation is anything but homosexual or similar nonsense.
As mentioned above, there are countless nerve cells in and around the anus, making it a real pleasure point..
One of the stimuli of this is that it is a very great proof of trust.
If you trust your partner, it can be very stimulating for him. The anus and the perineum are even more erogenous in the male than in her, which is especially evident with a massage of the perineum.
The first time Anilingus – What you need to know!
You hear 0ver and over again some interesting facts about this, and at first glance it appears to be a very strange erotic practice, but you don’t really know what to do about it?
You feel the thought of it getting hot, but don’t know if you have the right partner for it?
Anilingus, as mentioned above, usually encounters very divided opinions.
For many, the asshole is an absolute taboo and they wouldn’t dream of spoiling it with a little ass licking play. On the other hand, it could also have been your girlfriend’s long-standing, secret wish to really spoil someone’s ass.
How exactly will you find out which group your partner belongs to, and what steps are advisable after that – you will find out more in this article!
First introduce the partner, then the tongue!
“Do you have to ask if you can spoil the woman with anilingus or can you just do it? “
I read such a question on the Internet com not so long ago and the answer is definitely: yes, please!
It brings advantages if you talk about your plans beforehand and don’t suddenly start ass licking without warning.
In the worst case your partner will be totally confused, and perhaps even frightened, if he can do nothing with Anilingus, then you have destroyed the mood rather than making it hotter.
The most important part of the after-licking is also hygiene. If you suddenly dive into the dark caves without preparation, you should not be surprised if the ass has logically not been cleaned of any undesirable residues.
So the most important thing is that both agree to try this step. For couples who have already integrated Greek sex into their love life, the step is often a little easier. However, it is still important to talk to the lover about it and don’t just start.
The best way to target your partner is to do this and explain to him what excites you about it.
How he reacts you will then quickly notice – if he feels addressed, it is the green light for you both!
And if you’re still unsure, was a few porn videos where rimming takes place – you can pick up some great tips from porn!
The right preparation for rimming
You’re both hot from the thought and are now ready to try Anilingus? Great, but then there are a few little things you should consider for the best possible experience!
Cleaning
As mentioned above, a thorough cleansing of the anus is the most important part before the gratification should take place, it should be free of any nasties!
In other words, before we start, we should not only go over our ass with the toilet paper, but also clean the buttocks as thoroughly as possible.
Here a thin damp cloth is well suited, which can be carefully inserted with the finger.
If you begin with as pure a feeling as possible, you will undergo intestinal cleansing beforehand in order to thoroughly remove even the last residues. An shower is ideal for a thorough intimate cleansing and not only gives you a good feeling, but certainly also your partner.
For an anal shower you need nothing more than a so-called douche and maybe some sliding gel.
First fill the douche with lukewarm tap water – soap, oils or other cosmetic products are taboo! To avoid unpleasant air in the intestine, try to complete the douche completely.
If you are in the shower standing, put a leg on the edge of the bathtub and bend over. To make it easier to insert the douche, you can rub your anus with a little sliding gel.
With the movements you loosen your muscles, so try to relax.
Breathe in deeply. When exhaling, the douche slowly slides in a few centimeters. Be careful and don’t press by force – it shouldn’t hurt!
Press through the ball to pump all the contents into the rectum. Then hold the water in you for up to 2 minutes before you duck on the toilet.
Depending on the digestion, brown water or stool occurs. It is best to repeat the process until the water comes out clean.
Now your anus is excellently cleaned and nothing stands in the way of your ass licking games!
Depending on your partner’s sensitivity, it’s also good if you shave before going round the rear. Less hair on the anus increases the sensitivity and thus also the stimulations, moreover, in most cases it is more pleasant for the active part.
Some of the most important utensils for traffic: wafer-thin latex wipes, also called dental dams or lick cloths. These not only protect against infections, but also help to put the first shyness away from the intercourse.
Keeping cloths ready
Simply put the thin cloths on the anus and you’re off. Alternatively, a condom works.
Depending on how well you feel such aids can be omitted later, just listen to your gut feeling!
Small, sweet aids
Especially the first anus licking can be the “fear of an unpleasant taste“. But I can reassure you, with a well-cleaned anus you taste next to nothing; unlike a vagina.
If you still need a little assistance, then you can also smear your partner with honey, cream or other treats. So licking immediately becomes a pleasure for both sides!
But be careful: if you use food, you should ensure that it is not too sharp. Otherwise, redness and irritation could result, which would not be a nice happy ending for us and our partner.
Tips for your hot rimming experience!
If you have prepared yourself well and are already in the middle of the pleasure game, then of course it must not become boring, it must be the best possible experience!
For Anilingus is more than just “licking the ass”; with these 4 tips and tricks you will be able to spoil your partner unforgettably!
Depending on how much experience we and our partner have in the field of rimming, we should slowly move ahead of ourselves at the Rimjob.
For a relaxed atmosphere provides a little Dirty Talk to warm up.
Gentle kissing, massaging and nibbling, are best suited to the buttocks for the beginning. From there we can slowly approach the buttocks and pamper our partner with tongue and finger.
It is best to lick first with the flat tongue over these areas, then gradually let them become sharper and sharper.
A slight whining and breathing can provide a beguiling thrill for our partner.
The smallest stimulation’s are particularly intensely perceived by our anus and can be wonderfully arousing.
But please don’t blow it in, it tickles rather and doesn’t make us hot.
And don’t forget that porn videos offer some great tips too!
G-spot massage for him
A particularly sparkling experience should be this G-spot massage with him. Because yes, even men have a kind of G-spot, which is not that hard to find!
Unlike women, where somehow everyone isn’t sure if it exists and if so, where it is, men have a clear G-spot.
Actually, everyone has heard about it before, because it is the prostate; also known as the head gland. This is about the size of a chestnut, lies below the bladder and about five to seven centimeters behind the asshole towards the dam.
If you want to go looking, here I have a little guide for you:
Even if the thought of having a finger or tongue in the anus is unpleasant for many heterosexual men, men who have already had a prostate massage report the best peak of their lives. It’s similar to a woman being able to do squirting.
So we start with a finger (please moisten with sliding gel) or with the tongue and introduce either of the two into the anus.
The tongue or finger wanders along the dam towards the abdominal wall, and now needs to be slightly curved, so that we can feel the walnut-sized gland. If we have found the G-spot, we can start the massage.
Most men will tell you that this is very sensitive area here, so the prefer you to gently increase the pressure!
Don’t leave out other regions!
Also stimulate the area between the anus and the vagina/testicles. There aren’t as many nerve endings at the dam as there are on the anus itself, but with a little pressure it’s a wonderful place to drive your partner mad!
Because it lies between the anus and the intimate area, you stimulate both but nothing really right. Play with it and pay attention to what your partner likes!
The genitals can of course also be included! For example it can be wonderfully combined with a blowjob!
The rimjob can quickly lead to an orgasm. A special highlight is then to swallow his sperm.
Especially if you are new to the area of Anilingus, you should not rush anything. Touch carefully – literally – and listen to your counterpart’s signals. You can also watch a porn video for more tips.
It is best to read through the things you should avoid in bed beforehand. Only in this way nothing stands in the way of a hot night!
No-Go 1: In the case of the receiving women, it is very important that there is no change between anus and vagina! Whether the fingers or the penis is used.
Subsequent penetration of the vagina can transmit bacteria that can lead to inflammation! Therefore, you should change the condom or wash your hands and cock before vaginal intercourse.
No-Go 2: Leave your fingers out of the game for now! Of course, you can knead the buttocks or stimulate the anus with your hands, but be careful with penetration.
Many men and women find it inappropriate for you to suddenly continue in their anus without warning. Penetration is sometimes associated with pain, and should at best only be included in the lovemaking with advance notice!
No-Go 3: Stress in bed. Of course, you only move into intercourse if you both feel like it. If this is not the case, and you have been persuaded to do so by your partner for example, then it will not bring fun for any of you and, in the worst case, a whole does of pain.
Even if you find the thought of it exciting, if Anilingus is not for your partner, then so be it. It is supposed to be fun, there’s no point in forcing yourself to do it.
No-Go 4: Moaning, sighing, lifting his pelvis, tenderly swiping through his hair, perhaps gently clawing there when he gives us a lot of pleasure – that’s all allowed and desirable! Nothing is more frustrating for a man than a woman who remains silent and passive during oral sex.
Especially in anus licking, it is important to give the partner sufficient feedback to create uncertainties from both sides.
The right positions for Anilingus
Intercourse is a very intimate act; especially when it comes to the anus. When your partner opens the way to your most sensitive place, it’s a great show of confidence.
So that you can really relax and take control of yourself on request, we have collected four positions here, with which Anilingus will be especially beautiful for you!
(For simplicity, the instructions always describe the woman as the “happy” part. Of course all these positions can be used for you, as well as for him.)
The Throne
Do you want to give your lover the best access to your most intimate places while giving him an overwhelming sexual experience?
Then treat his face like your throne and sit on it! Position your knees next to his head and decide for yourself how close he can get to your intimate area with his tongue to give you the best enjoyment.
Through the movements of your hip, you can also determine where it touches you. Don’t be shy – many men dream that their partner will take the initiative and open up to them.
But beware, of course he should not suffocate, so please do not put a sloppy bet on his face! Very close and leave the weight on your knees.
The more you spread your legs, the more it comes to your anus. However, the opposite can also trigger certain stimuli.
Quite classic
Classic – only different
Sure, just lying on your back, spreading your legs and letting him do it is super-relaxed and a nice change, after all, we women are constantly thinking about how we can do it right during intercourse.
But even this classic oral sex position can be made much hotter, with a few small changes and can be adapted accordingly!
To do this, you simply pack a pillow under your buttocks. You can open your legs a little further and meet your partner, with the additional support, your asshole is no longer hidden and is easily accessible.
Or try to wrap your legs around his neck while he kisses you intimately. So you can show your passion and conduct it a little bit.
Doggy Style
Probably the most famous position, but also good for stimulation!
The woman kneels here on all fours and takes a rather passive position, the man kneels behind her and has a clear view of her anus, dam and vagina, allowing him to give you the best job.
This is also the most common style used in porn videos.
You can decide for yourself how much you want to spread your legs and he can pamper you without obstacles!
The 69
You will love this position, because it is above all about giving pleasure to both parties at the same time (again used a lot for the porn video).
The main idea behind this position is simple: you take care of your partner orally while he takes care of you orally. Both can be up or down, and you can change the position in between.
Plus: This works, of course, for any combination of genitals; among other things very good for Anilingus! Assuming, of course, you both stand on licking.
Often there are also couples in which either is always the active part, and the other is only the passive part. As long as you’re both happy with it, of course it’s not a problem and the results speak for themselves!
The rocking horse
This very special variant of the 69 position brings momentum to the love making. Here both get their money’s worth and it works for any combination of genders.
She lies on the back and pulls the legs close to the body, so that the anus is beautifully free.
He can now dive between her legs in the opposite way, in other words, he bends over her intimate area from her head side, which ensures that she too automatically gets access to his best piece.
A somewhat complicated but very pleasant sex position in which the asshole is wonderfully free.
For an extra kick, you can also gently swing your body, making the blowjob or licking even more intense.
Risks with Anilingus
No matter how horny Rimming can be, there are unfortunately dangers from ass licking, as with any other erotic practice.
The buttocks are known to be a region where more germs and bacteria accumulate, than in other places.
But even these health hazards do not have to be a gymnast at all, if you prepare well and comply with some rules – just following the information we give you!
The most important basic rule is: both partners must be healthy!
A battered immune system reacts very sensitively to germs and bacteria quickly – and/or transmits them to the treat via the intestine very quickly.
Not having any diseases and/or small wounds (e.g. through wild sex) on the anus is so important because even through oral intercourse serious diseases such as chlamydia, hepatitis A and B, fungi, syphilis and even HIV can be transmitted.
(However, if only the outer area of the anus is spoiled, and there are no directly bleeding areas or ejaculate on the skin, there is a very low risk of getting infected with HIV.)
As mentioned above, Anilingus should only take place if the anus has been thoroughly cleaned beforehand. The risk of being infected with germs by rimming is too great to overlook.
If you don’t know your partner so well (for example at a One Night Stand), don’t be too bad to resort to leaking wipes. The fun is the same for both of them, but you stay protected!
So be honest with each other regarding your state of health (all rights reserved) and pay attention to cleanliness and hygiene, then nothing can happen to you and nothing stands in the way of your hot night – so what are you waiting for, get to work on it!
So you’ve reached the end of the page – are you ready to go on to Anilingus?