When it comes to the Big O, The O-ly Grail, The Earth Shaker – whatever you like to call it – ladies really do have all the luck. Because unlike guys, women can orgasm again and again and again in one sitting! Or standing, or all fours or whatever floats your boat. That said; ask any woman you know if she’s ever had a multiple orgasm and the chances are she’ll say no. It can be an elusive flower in the sexual meadow, but with a little care and attention, you will definitely find it! Here are our top tips on how to bring forth the orgasmathon – no intercourse necessary.
Rule Number 1 – Don’t be afraid to talk to her. And we don’t mean about her day or how shit the commute home was. Talk dirty if that’s what she likes; tell her what you’d like to do to her and how you’d like to do it. If you’ve just started dating then make sure this is in fact her bag. If it’s not and you jump straight in with the X rated team talk then she may do one of two things: A) Die laughing or B) Tell you she knows the number of a really reliable cab company. If her sensibilities don’t swing that way then use tender words. Tell her what you love about her and her body, how turned on you are, how much you want her. For most women this initial dialogue will set just the right tone for the more physical stuff to follow.
Rule Number 2 – Don’t dive straight in at the deep end. The thing about the multiple orgasm is that it’s all about gentle coaxing with plenty of foreplay (the foreplay to the foreplay, if you like) and this means touching and caressing her other erogenous zones before you get anywhere near the clitoris. This will be different for each woman so if you’re new to each other’s bodies this is where you get to have fun exploring. For some women it will be the back of the neck, for others the earlobe, the inner thigh, the soles of her feet. Find out what does it for her and spend some time kissing and touching. She will start to feel it in her clitoris anyway, so it’s not like that part of her body is being totally ignored!
Rule Number 3 – Go forth and seek the G-Spot. This is a deliciously sweet spot (well, gland actually) located about two inches inside the vagina along the frontal wall. If you’re not sure where to find it, take your time and your girl will more than likely let you know when you’ve struck gold! Using your middle or index finger gently stimulate the G-Spot with a ‘come here’ motion. If you can manage to do this with one finger while giving her clitoris plenty of attention at the same time…well, let’s just say we hope you get on with your neighbours. This is where the magic happens and the resulting orgasm can be so intense she may not be able to walk for a while afterwards. Seriously!