Free your mind (part2)

Published 22/09/2015

3. Toys Toys and more Toys!

And no I don’t mean for solo masturbation, although they do come in handy for that as well, (but I could write a hole article based just off that).. Communicate with your partner on how to use various toys on you and yes I mean you too boys. There is a reason that toys are sold like crazy all over the internet, THEY FEEL GOOD! Especially if you learn how to use them properly on your partner, using toys in this manner will also teach you more about your partners pleasure points and how to make your them scream with intense ecstasy..

4. Research

Are you as good as you think you are?? Maybe you are, but there is always room for improvement. That blow job you have been giving most of your life could be one of the best but it wouldn’t hurt to learn about different techniques. The same goes for you boys (or girls ) going down town on your girl, there are plenty of books and videos on the subject, and guys please don’t use porn as your guide. Keep in mind they are performing a show for the cameras. Each girl is different so learn a variety of techniques and don’t be afraid to experiment. Ask her if she likes what you are doing and if she doesn’t try something else. This brings me to my final tip… Communication


5. Do you really know what your partner likes?

Communication is Key and probably the most important part of spicing up your sex life AND with your relationship in general. Are you pleasing your partner? How do you know unless you ask? People tend to not want to hurt their partners’ feelings by telling them they are not quite getting them off the they want. Well to me that’s just crazy, none of the tips I talked about above can be accomplished without good communication. Talk with your partner, find out what they like and don’t be afraid to tell them what you like and how they can do better. Point out the spots you want them to please the most, or show them places you want them to stay away from. Draw a fricken diagram if you have too..

I really could go on and on, there is something for everyone out there, don’t be afraid to try new things and explore your own sexuality, if you don’t know what pleases you sexually, then how can you inform your partner?


I always love hearing feedback from my readers, feel free to comment on what gets your motor running, maybe you will be helping someone else with your naughty ideas.

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