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Stimulating and finding the elusive G-spot, also known as the G-point, or simply as a female erogenous zone, is considered one of the most difficult tasks in a man’s world.
So difficult that there are many myths circulating in which the G-spot is really called into question. Difficult to find because they don’t know what it feels like.
This has led to many theories circulating about whether it ultimately exists or not. In this article we will help you get all the information and tips you need to find the G-spot, and how to stimulate it.
So you can take your sex life to a new level and become indispensable for the woman of your dreams, because nothing is better during sex than knowing your partner’s erogenous zones. Because as soon as you know them, you can easily stimulate them, thus providing the ultimate sexual pleasure.
Is there a G-spot at all?
Hardly any topic is as hotly debated as the G-spot. But does it really exist? Or is it simply an excuse for the women who almost never come during sex. Is the G Spot a magical hotspot that never existed?
If you want to discover and stimulate a woman’s G-spot, you have to go on a deep search, but it is by no means a journey into teaching.
Once you have discovered it, it can even lead to a female ejaculation, which happens only in the rarest cases as in the numerous porn you know, but is by no means impossible.
So, to put it briefly, the G-spot is by no means a myth, even if it would be convenient for many men.
It is practically certain and is proven that there is a special point that makes a woman particularly hot and if necessary leads to orgasm. Far away from the typical in and out movement with the penis of a man.
As soon as you have found it, you will notice at the beginning of the stimulation that she likes it quite a lot.
In this article you will get all the information and tips you need to put an end to your search for the G-spot and to ignite those vaginal orgasms.
History of the G-spot
The G-spot has a deep-lying history. It was discovered in the 1950s by a gynaecologist, Dr. Ernst Gräfenberg, who directed his entire existence into the study of vaginal orgasm.
Gräfenberg stated, “An erotic zone always could be demonstrated on the anterior wall of the vagina along the course of the urethra”.
Using G-spot stimulation for squirting
In this sensitive zone, which is by the way about five centimeters away from the vaginal entrance, according to Gräfenberg, there is the female prostate, which develops a fluid with a successful stimulation, similar to a man, which can lead to ejaculation during an orgasm.
If the woman lets herself go and is in the right mood, liquid can be ejected at a high speed. This is more commonly refered to as “Squirting” – a subject we already know quite a bit about, if you read our article.
In addition, once found, the G-spot is quite the guarantee of an orgasm, unlike sex. There, a woman rarely comes to orgasm. Of course, it is never excluded, because, as one puts it so beautifully, “the exception forms the norm.”
But most of the time it is actually more recommended to go in search of this particular female point before you indiscriminately put your finger in and out. This is liked by very few people and almost never leads to an orgasm.
Where is the G-spot?
The G-spot is usually three to five centimeters in the inner entrance of the vagina. Seen in this way on the inner vaginal wall. This means practically, on the side of the vagina direction up, i.e. towards the navel.
The best way to find the G-spot is through this picture:
Many men say that they have discovered the G-spot when it feels like a small sponge, or rather a small raspberry. The feeling on the finger is very rough!
Anyway, in short, this spot is a slight elevation, which swells as soon as you touch it properly. Once the G-spot has been stimulated properly, you should find it quite easily. The stimulation of the G-spot ensures the vaginal orgasm and you can only achieve this with the G-spot.
As a rule, it is rather recommended to keep your fingers away from this sensitive area, at least if your fingernails have not been cut for a long time. Because an erogenous zone is usually also a sensitive zone, which must be enjoyed with caution.
Usually a slight pressure is enough, which you put on it. This is usually very exciting for a woman and leads to great pleasure. Some are also under light pressure and others are more likely to be strong movements. So you should rely on good old communication.
This will never let you down and will cause you to know what your partner is more and less about. Finding that G-spot also usually means discovering it. Because no body is the same, just as not as its individual sexual sensation. Communication is also the key to success in sex.
Why few people find the G-spot
Unfortunately, you haven’t been able to discover a woman’s G-spot yet? Don’t worry, there’s always a first time! And even if it does, it’s no reason to put your head in the sand. We can even reassure you in this article.
Many women themselves have not yet been able to discover the king of erogenous zones. And that, too, is perfectly normal and okay.
There was even a rather interesting study that Kings College in London had put forward. As part of the study, around 2,000 women were asked whether they generally believe they had a G-spot.
The result was that 56 percent of women answered yes. Conversely, this means that almost half of all women surveyed have not yet found their G-spot. The problem is obvious. Because this pleasure zone only increases if it is strongly sexually aroused and this usually only happens over time.
Coupled with the fact that each woman is different and thus reacts differently to touches of her G-spot.
In addition, there is guaranteed also one or the other woman who has never set out to search out of lack of interest, which is actually a pity, because everyone should first get to know their body themselves before one can expect a man to know every point about them.
It really is a pity, because the stimulation of the G-spot leads to vaginal orgasm. Although most women rarely experience it, those who have already experienced it report it as extremely intense.
Even much more intense than the clitoral climax, which is more common after all. The clitoral orgasm arises exclusively through the stimulation of the female clitoris.
Stimulation of the G-spot
Discovering the G-spot is considered a horrible task, which usually only a few master with flying colours. If you have already discovered the G-spot, you are one of the few 50%.
And if you’re one of those few 50%, you’ve taken the decisive step. The first step in the right direction. If not, I hope you get all the information you need in this article.
It’s best to use light pressure to make your fingertips look like you’re trying to lure someone toyou. Light movement with a slight pressure. It’s best to vary with the pressure, as well as with the tempo.
The best tip is to pay attention to your partner’s feedback. This usually gives direct feedback as soon as something is liked, or just not liked.
If your partner doesn’t speak out big, you can also just ask her if you’re sure she likes what you’re doing.
Can I satisfy myself with the G-spot?
The first step is to find your own G-spot. Because are we honest ladies? Who of us has already discovered their own G-spot. The truth, unfortunately, is that only a few of us have gone in search. But once you’ve found it, you’ll usually discover it again and again.
The place is usually rougher and appears slightly hardened. This is usually noticeable, as the vaginal wall is usually rather smooth. Bend your finger lightly and exert a light pressure with your finger. Believe me when I tell you, you will notice when you have discovered it.
In addition, you can also satisfy the G-spot with vibrators and dildos if you don’t have a penis at hand. Just try your way.
However, you should get away from the pressure, because it ultimately does not cause anything except stress and that is the last thing you can use in masturbation.
And it’s also much easier to tell your treasure how and what to do down there once you know it yourself. So you can guide him perfectly and you can come to orgasm together.
In which position is the G-spot best stimulated?
If you went looking for the G-spot and actually found it, you’ve discovered a new erogenous zone. jackpot! Now you can think about the position in which it should be stimulated.
There are more sex positions than the alphabet has letters and we guarantee you that the right one is also there for you and your partner. For example, Doggy Style. As the woman kneels on her legs and takes her hands to support, the man can penetrate deeply from behind with his manhood.
This way of introducing the penis into the vagina can definitely stimulate the G-spot, since the penis touches the G-spot during a continuous in and out movement.
In addition, the elevated missionary position can save your ass in the search for the G-spot. Due to the fact that the woman wraps around the neck of the man with her ankles, this position is also very suitable, since the penis also comes particularly well to this erogenous zone.
If you want to find your G-spot together with another woman and you don’t have a penis to hand, you can also use numerous toys, which are now advertised online.
The conclusion around the G-spot
So Dr. Gräfenberg was not so wrong and the theory of the G-spot was by no means far-fetched.
It is located only a few centimeters inside the vaginal entrance and ensures a vaginal orgasm following good G-spot stimulation. Just give it a try and search around the vaginal wall. And don’t forget to communicate a lot with your partner. She knows best what she likes and what you should do to be better at it.
Erogenous usually also means sensitive and there is nothing worse than hurting the woman’s sexual organs during the act of love making. Because one thing we can promise you, is that this will ensure no climax is reached, and this will be the ultimate love killer – rather than “par excellence”.
And if you feel like, despite a detailed search, you simply just can’t find it, that’s really no reason to throw the gun in the grain.
Good sex is much more extensive than simply going in search of the G-spot. Whether its getting down to some oral sex, or some vaginal plat, or you are experimenting with some good anal sex, or even something quite different. Whatever you choose to do, remember the key objective here is to enjoy some really good sexual pleasure between you both.
Of course, you can also bring a woman to come in other ways. For example, through the clitoral orgasm. Take the pressure off you! Female orgasms are usually a case in themselves.
It’s best not to give up, communicate and never give up. You can achieve anything you want with a little patience, time and above all pleasure.