Squirting – a regular occurrence for some women, while others question that it happens at all. So, in the interests of educating the non-believers, here are some of the key facts on female ejaculation!
The first instance of squirting was reported way back in the 1890s and since then a good deal of research has been done to determine what actually happens and what makes it happen. The most recent of which seems to indicate that it comes from the female version of the prostate (the gland that makes semen for guys), while the liquid itself is expelled through the urethra. This is probably why some people seem to think that squirting is nothing more than a pee during sex. But rest assured it is most emphatically not a pee!
Now, if you and your partner want to give it a go, the main thing to bear in mind is that you both need to feel comfortable with it. If one of you isn’t 100% sure whether or not it’s your bag, neither of you is going to enjoy it. So have a chat about it before you dive in!
The key to making your girl squirt is foreplay. Take your time, working your way slowly through all her hotspots and make sure she’s really turned on before you move on to her G-spot. Using one or two fingers, depending on her preference, start to stimulate her G-Spot with the usual ‘come here’ motion. While you’re doing it, place the palm of your hand just above her pubic bone and apply some gentle pressure to increase and vary the sensations. Your girl will probably let you know how things are going, but if she doesn’t don’t be afraid to apply quite a lot of pressure to the G-Spot. Lots of women need plenty of stimulation in order to squirt, and as long as you use plenty of lube you needn’t be worried about chafing.
As the G-Spot hardens and things start to get intense, she might feel as though she needs to pee. This is where most women pull back as they are, naturally, afraid of the resulting mess. But this is where she needs to trust both herself and you, and just go with the flow. As she feels the orgasm coming on, tell her to gently squeeze her pelvic floor muscle, and this should bring things along nicely.
Female ejaculation can be seriously intense, so if you do manage to make it happen, don’t be surprised if she needs a bit of time to recover. Chances are you won’t be going for seconds for at least a couple of hours!