Hello again beauties!!! Ready for another session of tips? Today we’re going to discuss about your comfort zone. Defining your limits, and ready to say “No” whenever you’re out of your comfort zone.
Knowing your comfort zone and sticking to it will help you avoiding unnecessary stress. By only doing things you are comfortable with and enjoy, members will notice and you will end up making much more than if you push yourself past your limits and do things you aren’t comfortable with or dislike.
Defining Your Limits
When you begin camming, it is a good idea to define what you will and will not do on cam. You can write these limits on your cam4 profile or where it may be visible to other members to let everyone know what you will and will not do in your shows.
Everyone’s comfort level is different so don’t be afraid of refusing to do anything you aren’t comfortable with. You are not expected to do anything you do not wish to but remember to clearly communicate your limits to members so that there is no confusion.
Your limits may change over time and there is nothing wrong with suddenly deciding you are not okay with something you’ve offered before, or deciding to do something you refused before.
Saying “Yes” to Kicking/Banning
There will always be members trying to convince you to do what they want to see regardless of your limits. There are different ways to deal with this according to how the member reacts and NEVER be afraid of telling them “no”.
You will make much more money doing something you enjoy because the members will notice that you seem to genuinely enjoy what you are doing.
If you hate what you are doing, members will definitely notice and many will not come back or spend any more money on you. Would you rather pay a massage therapist who loves his job and spends much more time on each individual muscle, or a massage therapist who seems burnt out and simple goes through the motions wanting the session to be over with?