With 50 Shades of Grey coming out with a movie recently, bondage has been on everyone’s mind. If it’s something you’ve always wanted to try, here are some tips you can use, using only what you already have in your bedroom!!
1. Use Your Body: Don’t know your knots? No problem! For bondage newbies, get on top of your submissive partner and hold down their arms firmly while fucking them. This introduction to being helpless while fucked might encourage you both to learn more, if it makes you both cum hard!
2. Try a Blindfold: Taking away one of the senses makes the other ones stand out strong. Try using a scarf to tie around your partners eyes. This form of sensory deprivation bondage will take away their sight! If you want to go more extreme enclose their head a pillowcase to emulate the sensation of being hooded. For some extra sensory deprivation try adding a pair of ear plugs to heighten the sensation of touch. Then try stroking your submissive lover with different implements such as a feather or try melting ice on their waiting bits.
3. Be Careful With Handcuffs: Handcuffs seem like a truly easy and gentle bondage accessory, but they can be really brutal if you don’t use them with proper BDSM knowledge. Make sure they are not too tight, and never let any of your partner’s body weight hang on them. The sharp edge of the cuff can cut off circulation to the hands and cause temporary nerve damage.
4. No Rope? No Problem: If you don’t have rope or other bondage restraints, don’t worry! There are a bunch of kinky accessories lying around your house that you didn’t even know about. Try using some scarves or neckties to restrain your lover to the bed before sensually licking their most vulnerable bits.
5. Communicate: The most important thing for bondage newbies is to communicate with their partner. Ask them how they are doing. Make sure none of their bound limbs fall asleep. Check in on their mental state. This will keep the dominant and submissive very happy!