{"id":4380,"date":"2012-01-19T11:39:59","date_gmt":"2012-01-19T16:39:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.cam4.com\/?p=4380"},"modified":"2013-06-26T16:26:22","modified_gmt":"2013-06-26T20:26:22","slug":"the-mainstreaming-of-erotic-humiliation","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.cam4.com\/blog\/news\/the-mainstreaming-of-erotic-humiliation\/","title":{"rendered":"The Mainstreaming of Erotic Humiliation"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"<\/a>After a long day of work, I poured myself a glass of Malbec, and sat down to watch one of my favorite shows, Californication. True to its name, the show depicts unabashed sexual situations, particularly by the chick-magnet protagonist, Hank Moody, which not too surprisingly, is a common handle among cam viewers.<\/p>\n

Hank is not the only character that symbolizes how uninhibited Showtime perceives its audience to be. There is also Charlie Runkle, a divorced friend of Hank\u2019s, who recently ran laps around his living room when he accomplished his goal of sleeping with 100 women – is it no surprise Californication is written by a man?<\/p>\n

When Charlie\u2019s preschool son exposes himself to a female schoolmate, Charlie meets with his son\u2019s teacher and then chooses to apologize directly to the girl\u2019s mother – by going to her home.<\/p>\n

The little girl\u2019s mother is wildly attractive — as are most of the women on the show. She\u2019s also ferocious, demanding and divorced. While the two are in her grandiose kitchen, she begins berating\u00a0Charlie and asking\u00a0him if he\u2019s going to show her his penis.<\/p>\n

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\u201cWhy would I show you my penis?\u201d he asks.<\/p>\n

\u201cWhy wouldn\u2019t you?\u201d she spits back.<\/p>\n

Then she commands him to take it out. He unzips and begins to masturbate behind the kitchen\u2019s granite island. She insults his penis size; indicating that it\u2019s no bigger than his son\u2019s and that he\u2019s just as bad as his son for exposing himself. With each insult, Charlie beats more quickly, with a glazed\u00a0expression of immense pleasure. He then\u00a0ejaculates in the kitchen, interrupted by the nanny.<\/p>\n

I gave a mental clap when I saw this scene, sitting upright and at the edge of my sofa, amazed that I had just watched the mainstreaming of a fetish, specifically, erotic humiliation. Additionally, Charlie\u00a0was portrayed as a \u201cnormal\u201d guy…hell, he\u2019s slept with 100 women. Erotic humiliation is considered a fetish, perhaps an unusual one by many, and having it acted out on screen by the lovable, wanna-be stud, Charlie Runkle is superb.<\/p>\n

When I worked as a camgirl, I was bewildered when asked to insult my viewer about the size of his penis. He told me to point and laugh when he turned on his cam. He promised he\u2019d tip. After getting offline, I did a quick search and discovered this was erotic humiliation and given the prevalence of such information on the Internet, I felt naive.<\/p>\n

The beauty of engaging with cam models, versus watching porn or going to a strip club, is that Cam4 provides an arena that is sexually freeing due to the anonymity. Most\u00a0models are happy to comply if it pleases a tipping viewer. If it\u2019s mutually beneficial, it can be repeated; if it doesn\u2019t work, there\u2019s no awkward subsequent interaction. Your cam model\u00a0isn\u2019t someone you will accidentally bump into on the street. Unfortunately for Hank Moody, his sexual interludes invariably come back to haunt him. Maybe he should give camming a try.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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