Rule number one \u2013 lube, lube and more lube.<\/strong> Or Crisco, which Nikki Night highly recommends. The anal passage doesn\u2019t produce its own lubricant so you\u2019ll need to use a really good quality lube. Silicone-based products are the best bet because they won\u2019t dry up as quickly as water based ones. Avoid Vaseline as its way too sticky.<\/p>\n If you want your anal adventure to be successful, you need to make sure that the lady in question is REALLY turned on<\/strong>, so put the time and effort into the foreplay before you go anywhere near her butt. Teasing is the name of the game here, use massage oils all over her body, pull out all the tricks and pay attention to every inch of her, doing all the things you know she loves. Only when you\u2019re sure that she\u2019s really ready should you attempt entry through the back door.<\/p>\n Now, the condom question. Even if you\u2019re in a monogamous committed relationship we would recommend using a condom.<\/strong> A bum full of semen is not a whole lot of fun for anyone, and if your lady\u2019s bum is not used to the presence of your penis then things could get a little messy. Not just for her but for you too.<\/p>\n And finally, be prepared for things to be a little bit awkward the first time around \u2013 both physically and psychologically. Anal takes practice and it certainly isn\u2019t for everyone. Give it a go, experiment and see how you get on, but at the end of the day if your lady really doesn\u2019t enjoy it then don\u2019t push her on the subject. It can feel pretty invasive if it\u2019s not invited and if you love your partner, the last thing you want to do is hurt her in any way.<\/p>\n![\"anal-sex-cam4\"](\"https:\/\/www.cam4.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/anal-sex-cam4.jpg\")
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