How to Have Your Best Sex this Winter
When the temperature drops (like this week), it’s best to stay warm with a partner. For safety purposes ;) As a chilly Northerner, I have years of experience in indoor activities to keep warm with others in the middle of a blizzard. Come winter, your body is in hibernation mode. You’re sleepy, usually feeling stuffed after a never-ending stream of festivities and holiday parties, and you’re just not feeling tanned, toned, and hot. But we should all be taking it as an opportunity to get close to someone(s). Here’s some of my favorite ways to spend the winter months – and keep the winter blues at bay:
1. Take a shower/bath together
The shower or bath can be a steamy escape when temperatures drop. The bath is a great place for a little winter loving, the water will warm you up and there are plenty of fun, sexy things to do while you are in the tub. Come home from work and strip down with a partner, add some massage oils, scented bath soaps, candles, and wine to make it a romantic evening.
2. Warming lube
Warming lube is a good solution to keep her warm in the winter. On contact with the skin these lubricants create a warming sensation that heightens sensitivity, turning your touch into a much more stimulating experience! It’s slightly tingling and definitely a unique feeling that isn’t everyone’s favorite but give it a try and you could find a pleasantly intense orgasm awaits ;)
3. Sexercise
One of the best ways to say warm is to get active, so why not try to heat things up by trying out positions that work out your muscles. Use Google to find a healthy list of Kama Sutra Positions and try out some new moves. Challenge yourself to the difficult ones you’d never think we’re actually more fun than tedious.
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4. Kinky candle play
For the more adventurous, try candle-play. Sometimes candles can feel too cheesy or too romantic, but not when you’re dripping the hot wax onto your partner’s body. It’s a totally new sensation – burning hot to cold in seconds, and the anticipation is so fucking hot. Now you know what those bath candles are really for!
5. Massages
Invest in good massage oils. While you may not feel as sexy as your summertime self, the intimacy of a massage will relax you into a calm state of bliss. It’s not just about the skin on your pussy or cock, it’s about all of your skin… especially in winter. All-natural products like coconut oil, almond oil, and essential oils can also be used as natural lube.
