Question: What is the single most important element of any great sexual experience?
\nAnswer: Foreplay. Every time.<\/p>\n
Sex without foreplay is like trying to make a cake by chucking all the ingredients into a bowl at once, whipping them around for a while, lobbing the gloopy mess into a cake tin and then wondering why it stayed as flat as a pancake when you put it in the oven. It just aint gonna work. Well, OK it might work but it won\u2019t be nearly as splendiferously amazing as it could have been.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s particularly important for women. Actually let me rephrase that, its\u2019 crucial for women, and that is simply because when it comes to sex many of us take a while to really heat up. To use the cooking analogy again, men tend to be like a gas hob, turn them on and they\u2019re hot pretty much instantly, whereas women are a bit like that old electric cooker at your Nan\u2019s. We take a while to get going. So in the interests of better sex for all, here are some tips for fantastic foreplay.<\/p>\n
Never underestimate the power of candlelight and your favourite music. As corny as it might sound creating the right atmosphere can really help get the juices flowing, so if you think sex is going to be on the cards at some point in the evening, light a few candles and get some tunes on the stereo. Doesn\u2019t have to be Barry White as long as it\u2019s something that helps you relax.
\nSpend some time just being close to each other, holding hands, stroking each other\u2019s necks, arms, whatever. The chat doesn\u2019t have to be x-rated at this stage, it\u2019s all about connecting on that emotional level, having a giggle and zoning out the rest of the world.<\/p>\n
As a certain ageing songstress with long black hair and silicone just about everywhere you can inject it (allegedly) once sang \u2018it\u2019s in his kiss.\u2019 And oh how right she was. The kiss is EVERYTHING. And if the kiss doesn\u2019t start sending tingly sensations to your love machines then the chances are the sex isn\u2019t going to blow your minds either. So spend some time on it. Play with each other\u2019s tongues, gently nibble the lips and vary the pace and intensity of the kiss. Oh and don\u2019t forget the earlobes, very important.<\/p>\n
When it gets to the \u2018getting your kit off\u2019 stage take your time appreciating each other\u2019s bodies. Let the other person know if there\u2019s something you like. Being admired is a pretty big turn on for most people in that the better they feel about themselves, the more likely they are to fuck with abandon. And that\u2019s what we\u2019re aiming for here.<\/p>\n
Now comes the self-restraint stage. If you\u2019ve spent the last couple of hours chatting, giggling, nibbling and stroking then you may well be gagging for it at this point, in which case off you go if you can\u2019t hold back any longer. BUT\u2026if you can, then this is where the magic can really happen. This is when bodies can literally start to shake with desire as you lick, suck, tease and generally bring each other to the point of ecstasy without actually having intercourse. And when your partner is begging you to get down to business, there is nothing sweeter than that first amazing thrust.<\/p>\n
Now in all honesty, proper foreplay does take time and sometimes there just isn\u2019t enough of it. But if it\u2019s Friday night and there\u2019s no work tomorrow it\u2019s an investment that really does pay off.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Question: What is the single most important element of any great sexual experience? Answer: Foreplay. Every time. Sex without foreplay is like trying to make a cake by chucking all the ingredients into a bowl at once, whipping them around for a while, lobbing the gloopy mess into a cake tin and then wondering why […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":1532,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1531","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-camgirls","post-wrapper","thrv_wrapper"],"yoast_head":"\n