Hmmm, good question and, in all honesty, a fair question too. Why do women fake it when the real thing can be so mind bogglingly good? Well, women are complicated creatures (as you know) and there\u2019s no one answer to this question. There could be any number of reasons, depending on the circumstances. So in the name of demystifying things for our fellas, let\u2019s take a look at some of them. <\/p>\n
We like to make our guys feel good<\/strong> It makes us feel in control<\/strong> Sometimes we\u2019re just not in the mood<\/strong> Lack of communication in the relationship<\/strong> I\u2019ve gone a bit off topic here, I realise, but these things are important. OK, agony aunt bit over! Some\/most women just don\u2019t orgasm through intercourse<\/strong> And there you have it folks, the fake orgasm demystified. <\/p>\n Watch live Cam shows now! <\/a><\/p>\n Hmmm, good question and, in all honesty, a fair question too. Why do women fake it when the real thing can be so mind bogglingly good? Well, women are complicated creatures (as you know) and there\u2019s no one answer to this question. There could be any number of reasons, depending on the circumstances. So in […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":1473,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1472","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-camgirls","post-wrapper","thrv_wrapper"],"yoast_head":"\n
\nNow in my experience, this one only really applies at the beginning of a relationship! As time wears on, making your man feel like SuperSexGod becomes less important, and hanging in there until you actually do reach orgasm becomes more important. But in the early stages while you\u2019re still stressing about having to do a shit round at his place, there\u2019s every chance you\u2019ll do your best screamer impression, just to make him feel good. Not exactly a bad reason, but not a very helpful one either.<\/p>\n
\nWomen \u2013 liking to be in control? Never! But there is something very satisfying about being able to tip your guy over the edge simply by putting on a show. You know he\u2019s getting close, his face is a dead give-away, now all you need to do is buck your hips a little and go the full When Harry Met Sally and he\u2019s there. Result!<\/p>\n
\nGenerally speaking, and I do emphasise the \u2018generally\u2019 here, most guys are up for sex any time any place. Women on the other hand are more emotional and cerebral when it comes to sex and we do need to be in the right frame of mind before getting jiggy. Sometimes it\u2019s a definite no no and we just can\u2019t face it and on other occasions we decide to hop on board and see what happens. We may then find ourselves getting into the swing of things or it may prove to be a bit of a lost cause. When it\u2019s the latter, it\u2019s sometimes easier to fake things than risk hurting your guy\u2019s feelings and tell him it\u2019s just not happening tonight. Cos guys have feelings too you know \ud83d\ude09
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\nIt may be painful<\/strong>
\nThere are lots of reasons why women find sex uncomfortable, some of them are medical and again some of them are psychological. If we\u2019re not fully charged up and raring to go then lubrication or lack of it can be a problem, which in turn leads to chafing or even pain. Nobody wants to endure painful sex as it can just put you off altogether, so rather than asking her man to stop as it\u2019s hurting, some women may decide to fake it to bring things to a conclusion. <\/p>\n
\nIf there\u2019s one thing that leads to problems in every area of the relationship, it\u2019s lack of communication. Guys and gals we cannot over-emphasise the importance of talking things through. And that means talking everything through. Imagine the scenario. Couple have found themselves in a bit of a sex rut – same positions all the time, spark is gone, it\u2019s all become a bit \u2018quick bonk on a Saturday night because we feel we should.\u2019 While in this sex rut, woman finds that she is not reaching orgasm as easily as she used to. Instead of talking it through with partner she decides to fake it. Then she fakes it the next time, and then the time after that and before you know it, couple are not only in a sex rut but having real problems because now how does she tell her guy she\u2019s been faking it for ages without hurting his feelings? Great sex is ALL about communication. If something\u2019s not right you must talk to each other. Explain why it\u2019s not working, discuss how you might spice things up a bit. Suggest some role play, gentle BDSM, watch some porn together \u2013 whatever floats your boat. Just don\u2019t let your sex life dwindle away to nothing because you were afraid to talk to each other. It\u2019s too important for that.<\/p>\n
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\nLack of technique <\/strong>
\nOUCH! Sorry guys but sometimes you\u2019re just not hitting the right buttons. OK, we know those buttons can be bloody difficult to find sometimes, but like everything else practice makes perfect. However, while you\u2019re still discovering where everything is and how we\u2019re wired we may decide to fake it for a while just to keep things sweet. Because let\u2019s face it, nothing\u2019s going to sour the start of a relationship quicker than a woman telling you you\u2019re shit in bed and you didn\u2019t make me cum. We\u2019re not totally made of stone, so if we really like you and we think you might have long-term potential we\u2019ll fake it until you get to grips with how we\u2019re wired. So to speak! <\/p>\n
\nAnd that is just a fact. Not much we can do about it, it\u2019s just\u2026.yes you\u2019ve guessed it’s \u2018how we\u2019re wired\u2019. So, in the case of a one night stand, rather than going into details with someone you\u2019ve just met it\u2019s much easier just to put on the show and act as though you\u2019ve had the most amazing time in the world. The sex may well have been very nice thank you, it\u2019s just that the man in question doesn\u2019t know your body well enough to get straight to the sweet spot. Doesn\u2019t mean he wouldn\u2019t in time, but this is a one night stand \u2013 time is limited!<\/p>\nWhy not follow us on Twitter? @Cam4_UK<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"