Hands up if you\u2019re male and don\u2019t love blow jobs. Anyone\u2026anyone\u2026? No we didn\u2019t think so! For the majority of guys it is the holy grail of all sex acts and if they happen to hook up with a girl who really and truly knows what she\u2019s doing\u2026well she can probably start choosing the ring now. OK \u2013 gross generalisation and not entirely true, but you get where we\u2019re coming from.<\/p>\n
So what is the secret to a really great blow job and how can you improve your technique if you find yourself getting lock-jaw after the first 60 seconds? Here are some top tips from our resident blow job queen!<\/p>\n
First up \u2013 remember that your tongue is like any other muscle in your body. You gotta use it or you\u2019ll lose it. Not literally of course, but you will lose your blow job stamina if you don\u2019t exercise your tongue on a reasonably regular basis. And losing stamina can lead to tongue muscle cramps and tension in the tongue, which in turn leads to accidental biting and grazing with the teeth, which in turn leads to a pretty underwhelming end to the whole experience \u2013 for both parties.<\/p>\n
Secondly, this is about giving your man pleasure, turning him on, and making him feel great. After all, great sex is as much about seeing your partner enjoy themselves as it is about you getting your rocks off. That said, it should never feel like a chore \u2013 something you have to do to keep him happy. You should enjoy it too, and if you\u2019re really not feeling up for it then it\u2019s better to have this conversation. No man wants to think that you\u2019re doing something you really don\u2019t want to do because you feel you owe it to him. So make sure you\u2019re in the right frame of mind before you get started.<\/p>\n
Now, are you sitting\/kneeling comfortably? This bit is really important. If you\u2019re not comfortable you\u2019re going to start getting tired and feeling awkward pretty quickly, so make sure you find a position that works for you and gives you good access to his pride and joy.<\/p>\n
Let\u2019s get started. Whether he\u2019s hard as a cock shaped rock or \u2018not quite there yet\u2019 the place to start is with the tongue, gently licking from the base of his penis all the way up to the top. Do this as many times as you need to until you feel he\u2019s ready for Stage 2.<\/p>\n
Next take his penis inside your mouth and use your tongue, hands and fingers to stimulate the shaft (including the parts that you can\u2019t fit in your mouth \u2013 cos let\u2019s face it we\u2019re not all Linda Lovelace). Gently pull down with your fingers\/hand while you maintain a slow\/steady sucking motion. But again, be gentle. You\u2019re not trying to suck out the elixir of life, here. Try and maintain eye contact if you can. Stare into his eyes and let him see that you\u2019re having quite a nice time down there, thank you! This will be as much of a turn on for most guys as the actual licking, sucking and stroking. If you\u2019re particularly good at multi-tasking you can also try giving his balls some attention. It’s the ultimate added extra!<\/p>\n
Like anything else, practice makes perfect when it comes to blow jobs and if you\u2019re new to the whole BJ business then you may not have him shuddering with pleasure first time around. But hang in (not on) there and you will get better at it. Just remember, the one thing you don\u2019t want to do is leave teeth marks! So try and relax your jaw, don\u2019t take in more of his cock than you can comfortably manage, have fun and it\u2019s all good in the Jap\u2019s Eye hood. So to speak!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Hands up if you\u2019re male and don\u2019t love blow jobs. Anyone\u2026anyone\u2026? No we didn\u2019t think so! For the majority of guys it is the holy grail of all sex acts and if they happen to hook up with a girl who really and truly knows what she\u2019s doing\u2026well she can probably start choosing the ring […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":1375,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[21,7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1374","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog","category-camgirls","post-wrapper","thrv_wrapper"],"yoast_head":"\n