{"id":747,"date":"2012-02-07T00:23:29","date_gmt":"2012-02-07T00:23:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/gay.blogs.cam4.com\/?p=747"},"modified":"2012-02-07T00:24:16","modified_gmt":"2012-02-07T00:24:16","slug":"study-gays-and-lesbians-look-for-same-things-in-partners-as-straights","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.cam4.com\/blog-gay\/2012\/02\/study-gays-and-lesbians-look-for-same-things-in-partners-as-straights\/","title":{"rendered":"STUDY: Gays And Lesbians Look For Same Things In Partners As Straights"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Drs. Laura Berman and Helen Fisher discovered the busted economy hasn\u2019t killed people\u2019s dating lives\u201440% of those surveyed would date someone who was unemployed.<\/p>\n<p>In the realm of politics, the study found 53% of conservative Republicans routinely achieve orgasm during sex, compared to 40% of liberal Democrats (Well, that\u2019s because they\u2019re only focused on their own pleasure.) But those same Republicans have also had the least amount of sex in the past year.<\/p>\n<p>When it comes to gays and lesbians, at least on paper, we\u2019re attracted to the same qualities in a partner as heterosexuals:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Gays and lesbians are equally likely to seek a partner with a similar level of education (29% of heterosexuals, 23% of gay men and 31% of lesbians); has a successful career (33% of heterosexuals, 30% of gays, 28% of lesbians); is physically attractive to them (73% of heterosexuals, 75% of gays, 70% of lesbians); has a sense of humor (83% of heterosexuals, 82% of gays, 89% and lesbians) and who is confident and self-assured (74% of heterosexuals, 73% of gays, and 73% of lesbians).<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Also, perhaps not surprisingly, gay men appear to be more romantic\u2014or maybe naive\u2014than straight dudes:<strong><\/strong> Match found that gay men were almost 10% more likely to believe in love at first sight and 14% more likely to say they\u2019ve experienced it.<\/p>\n<p>The survey is interesting and all, but next time we\u2019d like to see them include some more questions specific to the LGBT community. Like:<\/p>\n<p>*Would you date someone with the same name as you?<\/p>\n<p>*Would you date a partner who was significantly better looking than you?<\/p>\n<p>*Would you date someone who was closeted?<\/p>\n<p>*Would you date someone who dated your ex?<\/p>\n<p>Enquiring minds wanna know!\u00a0 <a href=\"http:\/\/www.queerty.com\/study-gays-and-lesbians-look-for-same-things-in-partners-as-straights-20120202\/?utm_source=feedburner&amp;utm_medium=feed&amp;utm_campaign=Feed%3A+queerty2+%28Queerty%29\">Read More<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.cam4.com\/blog-gay\/files\/2012\/02\/Picture-45.png?ssl=1\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-748\" title=\"Picture-45\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.cam4.com\/blog-gay\/files\/2012\/02\/Picture-45.png?resize=405%2C254&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"405\" height=\"254\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.cam4.com\/blog-gay\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Picture-45.png?w=405&amp;ssl=1 405w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.cam4.com\/blog-gay\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Picture-45.png?resize=300%2C188&amp;ssl=1 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 405px) 100vw, 405px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Drs. 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