This goes for both guys and girls, because as we know from CAM4 experience; toys aren\u2019t just for girls. So you have these toys, and you love them, they work every time, and they treat you like royalty. Whether you want to spice things up with your partner, or you want to heighten the experience, you should never feel ashamed of your toys. Here\u2019s how you can introduce even the most buttoned up partner to your toys without sending them running out the door.<\/p>\n
1. Be mindful of their ego<\/strong><\/p>\n When you introduce anything new to an intimate relationship, there will be questions. Don\u2019t be a pussy, you can answer these questions with grace, right? Maybe. Assure your partner that you love their moves and that the toys are just to have even more fun. I mean, unless you guys have vibrating hands, two cocks, and buttons to control your pulsations\u2026only non-human toys can provide these things.<\/p>\n 2. Begin with the easy toys<\/strong><\/p>\n I don\u2019t know how many men have mistaken my Clarisonic face brush as a vibrator and left my bathroom freaked out. Ease them into your simplest, least threatening toys. Did you start off your sex toy collection with a 10\u2033 thick dildo? Think about your lover as a beginner sex toy shopper \u2013 simple, easy to use, and \u201cnormal\u201d looking. Think simplistic vibrators or average dildos.<\/p>\n 3. Remember you\u2019re not masturbating<\/strong><\/p>\n Of course you\u2019re not going to throw your lover off your bed and ravish your vibrator. You\u2019ve done that already, maybe even this morning. But showing them that the toy is just an addition and not the main attraction will leave them open for more toy play. Who knows, maybe one day they\u2019ll want their own \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n 4. Ask them if they\u2019re into toys<\/strong><\/p>\n If your partner sees you opening up about sex toys, chances are they\u2019ll feel more open to share their fetishes and desires with you. But ask them first \u2013 it\u2019s hot to watch someone open up, and it\u2019s easier on them. Ask if they\u2019d ever buy a sex toy, do they want to see your other toys, would they go sex toy shopping with you? Being open is key to all good relationships!<\/p>\n