{"id":10444,"date":"2017-10-28T15:00:12","date_gmt":"2017-10-28T15:00:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/gay.blogs.cam4.com\/?p=10444"},"modified":"2017-10-25T16:48:16","modified_gmt":"2017-10-25T16:48:16","slug":"cam4-performer-interview-theanthonyv","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.cam4.com\/blog-gay\/2017\/10\/cam4-performer-interview-theanthonyv\/","title":{"rendered":"CAM4 Performer Interview: TheAnthonyV"},"content":{"rendered":"

TheAnthonyV<\/a> <\/strong>is one of our newest cammers and he is here to squash the stereotypes! He is a proud African-American male from Jamaica and wants his viewers to hear his story…<\/p>\n

His first show is on Sunday, October 29th, 2017 at 8pm!\u00a0<\/span><\/h4>\n

WES:\u00a0Tell us about yourself and why you wanted to start camming.<\/strong><\/p>\n

TheAnthonyV:<\/strong> I go by Anthony V. I am 29 years old, from Westmoreland Jamaica and moved to Canada at the age of 7 to live with my father. I consider myself to be an average guy. I enjoy going to the gym, watching movies\/anime, also hiking and fishing in the summer. As far as camming goes I am not ashamed of my body and proud of the skin I live in\u2026 There’s no bigger boost of confidence knowing you have an audience of admirers out there. Plus it\u2019s always good to add a bit of color and spice to the industry, especially with camming being the future of porn and all.<\/p>\n

WES:\u00a0Growing up as an African American male, did you feel you had to hide your sexuality?<\/strong><\/p>\n

TheAnthonyV: <\/strong>I grew up in what I would consider a typical black Jamaican household.\u00a0 As a young child, I felt that I had to hide the fact that I was gay. My family never once gave me a reason or showed me that they would be fine if they had a gay son or sibling.<\/p>\n

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WES:\u00a0When did you come out, and what was it like for you?<\/strong><\/p>\n

TheAnthonyV: <\/strong>I knew I was gay at a very young age. That was when I started to notice other friends starting to have \u201cgirlfriends\u201d and I realized shortly after that I did not show the same interest in females as they did. I did end up dating a few girls to hide the fact that I was gay. I stopped trying to convince myself that I could try to be straight around the age of 21 right after I completed college. Even though the girls I had dated were great in their own way, I was never truly happy with them and could never completely love them the way they deserved to be \u2026It was unfair to both of us.<\/p>\n

I finally came out to my mom at the age of 23.\u00a0 One day she just flat out asked if I was gay. \u00a0 My mom still lives in Jamaica and is what I consider a hardcore Christian woman. I don\u2019t believe she was mad that I was gay, she was more disappointed. After I came out, it took her a few weeks to finally come around. She told me she had spent a lot of time crying and of course praying \u2026After what seemed to be longest phone call EVER she told me she would love me no matter what and that I will always be her son.<\/p>\n

My father, on the other hand, had a field day. I knew he was very homophobic and I knew once my mom told him he would flip out \u2026boy did he ever. Now I thought it wouldn\u2019t bother me as much because I expected it, BUT I was kind of hoping he would surprise me in some kind of weird way. I think I took it harder than expected because I considered myself a great son. I was a good child and very respectful growing up, had good grades in school, never got into trouble, worked hard, and paid my own way through college. Even though he was never the one to tell me he was proud of me, I knew he was… but in one moment none of that mattered and all he saw in front of him was another \u201cfaggot\u201d instead of his son.<\/p>\n

One of the most difficult obstacles in any gay male\u2019s life is worrying about being accepted when coming out for the first time, especially to family, but as is the case with many Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, and Queer youth.<\/p>\n

WES:\u00a0Do you feel self-conscious because of the stereotype that all black men have big dicks?<\/strong><\/p>\n

TheAnthonyV:\u00a0<\/strong>When I was younger, sure, but now being much older and wiser I know not all black men have \u201cbig\u201d dicks. Let\u2019s just say I have seen my share of \u201caverage\u201d ones. Now I try not to worry about the size of mine, the way I look at it is you can\u2019t change it,\u00a0so work with what you got. You can\u2019t go trade it in when a bigger one becomes available, so why bother stressing over the size. PLUS, I\u2019m a BOTTOM \u2026I worry more about keeping my ass toned and my hole tight.<\/p>\n

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WES:\u00a0Because you\u2019re so built and masculine, most would assume you\u2019re a top. Are people surprised when you say you\u2019re a power bottom?\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

TheAnthonyV:\u00a0<\/strong>All the time, that was another identity crisis\/struggle I had to go through. I was actually a top for like the first few years after I started to date guys. I guess because I was black and have what I would consider an above average size dick that I needed to be the top. But when I decided to bottom for the first time I loved it, and I \u00a0KNEW that was the role for me.<\/p>\n

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WES:\u00a0What is your best physical feature?<\/strong><\/p>\n

TheAnthonyV:\u00a0<\/strong>My smile\u2026 People do say I have pretty eyes though lol<\/p>\n

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WES:\u00a0What position do you prefer?<\/strong><\/p>\n

TheAnthonyV:\u00a0<\/strong>I like to be on my stomach with a dominate top drilling my ass while pinning me down.<\/p>\n

WES:\u00a0What\u2019s your idea of a perfect date night?<\/strong><\/p>\n

TheAnthonyV:\u00a0<\/strong>Doing something a little more outside of the box. If you plan something creative and out of the ordinary instead of the average \u201cdinner and a movie\u201d and can still manage to make me laugh, and carry a conversation regardless of the topic then that is all I could really ask for.<\/p>\n

WES:\u00a0Where is your favorite place to cum \/ where do you prefer someone to cum?<\/strong><\/p>\n

TheAnthonyV:\u00a0<\/strong>Down your throat\u2026 down my throat\u2026 next question\u2026<\/p>\n

WES:\u00a0Do you have any fetishes?<\/strong><\/p>\n

TheAnthonyV:\u00a0<\/strong>Sure do, but nothing really kinky or dirty to be honest. I just REALLY love\u00a0rough sex lol which in all fairness I blame on years of watching exaggerated porn. So, sadly, the soft stuff just doesn\u2019t do it for me.<\/p>\n

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WES:\u00a0What advice would you give other men of color who are afraid to come out?<\/strong><\/p>\n

TheAnthonyV:\u00a0<\/strong>Don\u2019t rush it\u2026 take your time and come out on your own terms. At a certain age, you are going to stop caring about what other people think of you.<\/p>\n

It took me 10 years to accept myself for who I am, and another 2 years to build up the courage to come out. I was lucky to have had a few gay friends and was in a relationship at the time, so I at least had people to talk to when I was feeling down that could pick me back up. I found it was far easier to come out having at least one person who already knew, that I could confide in before telling my family. Regardless, our community is constantly growing and I feel like today\u2019s youth have a bigger platform and more support than ever. Just know there is always somebody out there like you and that you are NOT alone.<\/p>\n

If you love TheAnthonyV as much as we do, be sure to follow him on\u00a0Twitter\u00a0<\/a>\u00a0and Instagram<\/a>,\u00a0and\u00a0WATCH HIM LIVE<\/a>!<\/p>\n

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