- Gender: male
- Member since: September 07, 2012
- Last Broadcast: Aug 28, 2015 5:13:02 PM
- Ethnicity: White / Caucasian
- Orientation: bicurious
- Relationship Status: single
- Age: 19
- Location: , Brazil
- Spoken language(s): English
- Height: 6'0"
- Occupation: performance artists
- Smoke: no
- Drink: socially
- Body Type: slim/petite
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I am the rarest type, and make up 1% or less of the population. Read more about my personality here... or take your test here ...http://www.16personalities.com/INFJ-personality
What it says about me ?
Portrait of an INFJ - Introverted iNtuitive Feeling Judging
(Introverted Intuition with Extraverted Feeling)
Your primary mode of living is focused internally, where you take things in primarily via intuition. Your secondary mode is external, where you deal with things according to how you feel about them, or how they fit with your personal value system.
INFJs are gentle, caring, complex and highly intuitive individuals. Artistic and creative, they live in a world of hidden meanings and possibilities. Only 1% of the population has an INFJ Personality Type, making it the most rare of all the types.
INFJs place great importance on havings things orderly and systematic in their outer world. They put a lot of energy into identifying the best system for getting things done, and constantly define and re-define the priorities in their lives. On the other hand, INFJs operate within themselves on an intuitive basis which is entirely spontaneous. They know things intuitively, without being able to pinpoint why, and without detailed knowledge of the subject at hand. They are usually right, and they usually know it. Consequently, INFJs put a tremendous amount of faith into their instincts and intuitions. This is something of a conflict between the inner and outer worlds, and may result in the INFJ not being as organized as other Judging types tend to be. Or we may see some signs of disarray in an otherwise orderly tendency, such as a consistently messy desk.
INFJs have uncanny insight into people and situations. They get "feelings" about things and intuitively understand them. As an extreme example, some INFJs report experiences of a psychic nature, such as getting strong feelings about there being a problem with a loved one, and discovering later that they were in a car accident. This is the sort of thing that other types may scorn and scoff at, and the INFJ themself does not really understand their intuition at a level which can be verbalized. Consequently, most INFJs are protective of their inner selves, sharing only what they choose to share when they choose to share it. They are deep, complex individuals, who are quite private and typically difficult to understand. INFJs hold back part of themselves, and can be secretive.
But the INFJ is as genuinely warm as they are complex. INFJs hold a special place in the heart of people who they are close to, who are able to see their special gifts and depth of caring. INFJs are concerned for people's feelings, and try to be gentle to avoid hurting anyone. They are very sensitive to conflict, and cannot tolerate it very well. Situations which are charged with conflict may drive the normally peaceful INFJ into a state of agitation or charged anger. They may tend to internalize conflict into their bodies, and experience health problems when under a lot of stress.
Because the INFJ has such strong intuitive capabilities, they trust their own instincts above all else. This may result in an INFJ stubborness and tendency to ignore other people's opinions. They believe that they're right. On the other hand, INFJ is a perfectionist who doubts that they are living up to their full potential. INFJs are rarely at complete peace with themselves - there's always something else they should be doing to improve themselves and the world around them. They believe in constant growth, and don't often take time to revel in their accomplishments. They have strong value systems, and need to live their lives in accordance with what they feel is right. In deference to the Feeling aspect of their personalities, INFJs are in some ways gentle and easy going. Conversely, they have very high expectations of themselves, and frequently of their families. They don't believe in compromising their ideals.
INFJ is a natural nurturer; patient, devoted and protective. They make loving parents and usually have strong bonds with their offspring. They have high expectations of their *** , and push them to be the best that they can be. This can sometimes manifest itself in the INFJ being hard-nosed and stubborn. But generally, *** of an INFJ get devoted and sincere parental guidance, combined with deep caring.
In the workplace, the INFJ usually shows up in areas where they can be creative and somewhat independent. They have a natural affinity for art, and many excel in the sciences, where they make use of their intuition. INFJs can also be found in service-oriented professions. They are not good at dealing with minutia or very detailed tasks. The INFJ will either avoid such things, or else go to the other extreme and become enveloped in the details to the extent that they can no longer see the big picture. An INFJ who has gone the route of becoming meticulous about details may be highly critical of other individuals who are not.
The INFJ individual is gifted in ways that other types are not. Life is not necessarily easy for the INFJ, but they are capable of great depth of feeling and personal achievement.
Jungian functional preference ordering:
Dominant: Introverted Intuition
Auxiliary: Extraverted Feeling
Tertiary: Introverted Thinking
Inferior: Extraverted Sensing
INFJs are warm and affirming people who are usually also deep and complex. They're likely to seek out and promote relationships that are intense and meaningful. They tend to be perfectionists, and are always striving for the Ultimate Relationship. For the most part, this is a positive feature, but sometimes works against the INFJ if they fall into the habit of moving from relationship to relationship, always in search of a more perfect partner. In general, the INFJ is a deeply warm and caring person who is highly invested in the health of their close relationships, and puts forth a lot of effort to make them positive. They are valued by those close to them for these special qualities. They seek long-term, lifelong relationships, although they don't always find them.
- Warm and affirming by nature
- Dedicated to achieving the ultimate relationship
- Sensitive and concerned for others' feelings
- Usually have good communication skills, especially written
- Take their commitments very seriously, and seek lifelong relationships
- Have very high expectations for themselves and others (both a strength and weakness)
- Good listeners
- Are able to move on after a relationship has ended (once they're sure it's over)
- Tendency to hold back part of themselves
- Not good with money or practical day-to-day life necessities
- Extreme dislike of conflict and criticism
- Have very high expectations for themselves and others (both a
strength and weakness)
- Have difficulty leaving a bad relationship
INFJs as Lovers...
INFJs are warm, considerate partners who feel great depth of love for their partners. They enjoy showing this love, and want to receive affirmation back from their mates.
They are perfectionists, constantly striving to achieve the Perfect Relationship. This can sometimes be frustrating to their mates, who may feel put upon by the INFJs demanding perfectionism. However, it may also be greatly appreciated, because it indicates a sincere commitment to the relationship, and a depth of caring which is not usually present in other types.
Sexually, INFJs view intimacy as a nearly spiritual experience. They embrace the opportunity to bond heart and soul with their mates. As service-oriented individuals, it's very important to them that their mates are happy. Intimacy is an opportunity for the INFJ to selflessly give their love, and experience it in a tangible way.
Although two well-developed individuals of any type can enjoy a healthy relationship, INFJ's natural partner is the ENTP, or the ENFP. INFJ's dominant function of Introverted Intuition is best matched with a personality type that is dominated by Extraverted Intuition. How did we arrive at this?
INFJs as Friends...
Although the INFJ is likely to put friends behind their God and their families in terms of importance, they do value their friendships. As idealists who have strong value systems, INFJs seek authenticity and depth in their close relationships, and especially value people who can see and appreciate the INFJ for who they are and what they stand for.
The INFJ is likely to spend a lot of time socialing with family members. If they are religious, they probably are social with members of their religious community. After that, the INFJ may have friends represented from any of the personality types. They are usually extremely intuitive individuals, who will have no patience for anyone they feel is dishonest or corrupt. They'll have no interest in being around these kinds of people.
All kinds of people are drawn towards the INFJ. They are usually quite popular, although they may be unaware of it themselves, because they don't place a lot of importance on it.
The INFJ is valued by their close friends for their warmth and consideration, their new and interesting ways of looking at things, and for their ability to inspire and motivate others to be the best that they can be.
When it comes to getting to know me you'll never get to know me by just chatting to me but actual being there with me... A lot of guys want it easy but unfortunately i am not that easy. You'll only get to know me by being with me not sleeping with me. I am extremely an observing person, very particular with my surroundings and know who my friends are. I'm the guy who likes to sit back and just watch everything happen because it's not always what you say. It's what you do. What you show. I'm not always the chatty type - out going type of guy. Upon meeting me for the first time you may find me shy yet boring because i'm not so great with small talk and carrying conversations. But as times goes by and the more time i spent getting to know the person, i'll start to open up more and more. Takes a lot of patience getting to know me. Even more just being with me :D
MY INTERESTS & HOBBIES:
Movies, Riding bikes, Jogging, Fishing, Swimming, Cooking, Pets, Gym, Beaches, Performing arts, Walking in the city, Going out at night, Dinning out, Taking bubble baths, Traveling, Exploring the world and cultures, Experiencing life even further and the finest things that life has to offer :)
MY TYPE OF FRIENDS:
I like to be around people who share life experiences and are optimistic. People who lift you up, inspire others and make you a better person. Those are the type of people i want in my life and the people i call my true ''friends.'' Lots of people would want to ride with you in the limo, but at the end of the day i'd rather have someone who will take the bus with me when the limo breaks down...''
QUOTES I'M RELATED TO...
''I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle but if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best.''
- Marylin Monroe
"Step back, stop judging and understand that everybody has a story. Everybody got there for a reason and people are who they are.''
''No judgement, you don't know peoples situation circumstances.''
''If you judge people, you have no time to love them''
- *** Teresa
"If you don't design your own life plan, chances are you'll fall into someone else's plan. And guess what they have planned for you? Not much. You cannot change your destination overnight, but you can change your direction overnight.''
- Jim Rohn
"Be thankful for what you have; you'll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don't have, you will never, ever have enough.''
- Oprah Winfrey
''When youve worked hard, and done well, and walked through that doorway of opportunity you do not slam it shut behind you you reach back, and you give other folks the same chances that helped you succeed.''
- Michelle Obama (DNC 2012)
''Every one of us gets through the tough times because somebody is there, standing in the gap to close it for us.''
- Oprah Winfrey
my ideal guy :)
PIERS MORGAN: Well, what made you fall in love with him?
JADA PINKETT SMITH: I would say Will (WILL SMITH) came at a time in my life where he saw beauty in me that I didn't see in myself at the time. And, you know, he saw a diamond in the rough and kind of, picked me up and blew off all the dust and said, I'm telling you, I'm going to make you shine girl.
PIERS MORGAN: He certainly did that.
JADA PINKETT SMITH: Right, exactly. So, I was going through a really rough time and, you know, he created a really safe space for me to get healthy and to grow and define myself.)
For me...MARRIAGE IS A COMMITMENT, NOT LOVE!
Everyone so afraid to marry but forgot it is not love. It's a committed relationship. And why would anyone who says ''i love you'' be so afraid to commit to you ? Marriage holds true to sincerity, patience, trustworthy, honestly, a since of understanding, with compassion for each other and most importantly, communication. The only type of love i trust would be getting married and seeing his ring on his finger :)
RELATIONSHIP ADVICE: MUST READ
1. If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay.
2. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that’s not meant to be. Slower is better.
3. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
4. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can’t “be friends”. A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend. Don’t settle!
5. Don’t stay because you think “it will get better” You’ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
6. The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
7. Avoid men who’ve got a bunch of you know who by a bunch of different women. He didn’t marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?
8. Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
9. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.
10. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
11. You cannot change a man’s behavior. Change comes from within.
12. Don’t EVER make him feel he is more important than you are. Even if he has more education or in a better job.
13. Never borrow someone else’s man.
14. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
15. You should not be the one doing all the bending. Compromise is two way street.
16. You need time to heal between relationships. There is nothing cute about baggage. Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
17. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you. A relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals. Look for someone complimentary not supplementary.
18. Make him miss you sometimes. When a man always know where you are, and you’re always readily available to him – he takes it for granted.
19. Never move into his *** ’s house. Never co-sign for a man.
20. You should know that you’re the best thing that could ever happen to anyone and if a man mistreats you, he’ll miss out on a good thing. If he was attracted to you in the 1st place, just know that he’s not the only one. They’re all watching you and you want more .. so you have a lot of choices. Make the right one.
Complimentary VS Supplementary
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
QUOTES TO THINK ABOUT...
''You dont have to be rich to have a rich life.'' ... for me your friends, life experiences and perhaps your boyfriend or your pet (dog, cat) can make your life richer. Make you who you are today not money. Sometimes when i am upset or had a bad day my Yorkshire Terrier would jump on my bed and cheer me up :) Money does not. So therefore you don't have to be rich to have a rich life. Your friends, the people you care about the most and care about you, make you richer.
''Travel the only thing money can buy that makes you richer.'' As i have learned... experience is education, even adventure can enrich you and the lives of others that you meet along the way.
Friend: I think what you are doing is so great, to open up your home to him. Honey you are changing the boy's life.
Leigh Anne Tuohy: No, he is changing my life. - THE BLIND SIDE
Topher Grace: ''In a relationship you have to accept the other person for all of who they are and not just the parts that are easy to like...And your stupid if you turn your back on something as important as love.''
- THE VALENTINES DAY
Will Smith: ''Dont ever let someone tell you that you cant do something. Not even me. You got a dream, you gotta protect it. When people cant do something themselves, theyre gonna tell you that you cant do it. You want something, go get it. Period.'' - THE PURSUIT Of HAPPINESS
Wesley: ''I don't know what's out there, and what's waiting for me 'but whatever it is, I'm gonna find it.''
- GOOD DEEDS
MoNique: ''No Judgement, because you don't know people circumstances.'' - PRECIOUS
* Get Real
* Pan's Labyrinth
* Set it Off
* City of God
* Love Actually
* Erin Brockovich
* The Pursuit of Happyness
* He's Just Not Into You
* Supersize Me
* Going for the Distance
* The blind Side
* Elite Squad: The Enemy Within
* Inside Man
* Catch me if You Can
* Saving Private Ryan
FAVORITE MOVIE DIRECTORS:
Paul W. S. Anderson
Guillermo del Toro
J. J. Abrams
FAVORITE COMEDY MOVIES THAT MADE ME LAUGH (WHICH IS RARE):
* Fun with Dick and Jane
* Margaret Cho
* Scary Movie 2 ... when he puts his finger inside the turkey's pussy :D
* Shaun of the Dead
FAVORITE GENRE IS ALWAYS HORROR... :)
(i love horror movies just as long it's not stupid! i.e. ''House of the Dead'' 2003 and not watching it by myself :p Hellraiser, Freddy Krueger, Texas Chainsaw Massacre, Hills Have Eyes, Wrong Turn, Jeepers Creepers, Resident Evil, Underworld, Hostel, The Blair Witch Project (1999), 28 Weeks Later, 28 Days Later, The Descent 1 and 2, Alien...
I also like other genres such as superhero, science fiction and epic fantasy adventure. Some of the coolest i've seen...
(X-men the future of the past, Thor, Captain America: Winter Soldier.)
(Transformers, StarTrek (2009)
EPIC FANTASY ADVENTURE
(Lord of the Rings, The Hobbit)
FAVORITE TELEVISION SERIES:
The X-Files (All time favorite)
The Oprah Winfrey Show
America's Next Top Model
Suze Orman Show
Mutant Ninja Turtles
MY SENSE OF STYLE & TASTE...
W hotel. i really didn't care for Ritz Carlton or Trump... :p
Armani Residences...again, did not care for Trump
residency :D W hotel also has residences which i also liked.
BoConcept, Armani Casi (can't afford it) :( that's why i shop at IKEA :)
anything spicy will win my mouth :) i love food and Korean food is my favorite :) But i also love Indian, Thai and Mexican (gotta love the frozen Margaritas) :D, Brazilian, Sushi (Japanese), Italian and Cuban food...YUM! YUM! YUM! I'm hungry now :D
Trader's Joe, Wegmans, Whole Foods
Starbucks, Jamba Juice, Popeyes, Chick-Fil-A, Jack in the box, Papa John's Pizza PAST FAVORITES: Taco Bell, Long John's Silver's and Panda Express.
Morton's Steak House (i did not like Ruth's Chris Steak House neither did i cared for Smith & Wollensky. Outback Steakhouse is worst.
Papa John's Pizza. (sorry Dominos and SORRY Pizza Hut ;)
Chipotle, Cheesecake Factory, P. F. Chang's, Cracker Barrel and any of The Starr Restaurant Organization's 19 restaurants headed by Stephen Starr :D
Cartier and maybe Bulgari (can't afford it) that's why i shop at Claire's :D
Chanel J12 (really don't care for Rolex)
i rather shop for designer than shopping for brands but brands usually consist with a group of designers put together to come up with a concept or design for the season. Gucci (back when Tom Ford was the head) was my favorite. Maybe Emporio Armani. Can't afford it though that's why i shop at H&M :D
I used to shop at Armani Exchange but stopped years ago when they started adding their logos on everything just like Abercrombie & Fitch! I cannot understand the concept of people wearing shirts that have their label written all over it i.e. ''A&F" or AX written in bold letters in front of their shirts. Maybe some people are just proud they went and brought it and want to let everyone know where they got it from lol seriously. That's not fashion in my sense. I buy design... not print.
If i have to wear a label i rather it be their signature logo and not the the whole label (or brand) written. I.e. Lacoste (alligator), Ralph Lauren (Polo emblem), Burberry also has some polo guy on a *** and a signature plaid, Hermes (H), Gucci (signature web or double G) Abercrombie's signature is a moose (logo is A&F). Armani i think is an eagle or some bird. I try wear something nobody would know unless they asked. Why would they ask ? because it looks nice on me :) not because it says Abercrombie & Fitch, Hollister (same company) or Armani Exchange ...
i mean, at least you don't see ''Calvin Klein'' unless you'll like me to see your underwear :D
i think this is enough for my sense of style and taste before i start offending people here :D Whether or not you think we'll get along. Have anything in common :D I think i've written enough about myself to demonstrate who i am as a person and the way i think and speak my mind. Thank you for reading :)
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