I consider myself to be a pretty average guy who came into an acceptance of his sexuality later than many of my peers (mid-30's). Before moving on to the questions provided by cam4, I'm going to use this space to answer a few that are not part of the set provided by cam4 (strangely enough all those questions are centered around sex. Hmm, go figure). Anyhow, first off: Why cam4? Well, truth is I don't know many people where I live, now and I'm not the best socializer. I'm a homebody and cam4 provides a great way (I think) to connect with people via the internet w/o having to go too far. My partner says I'm agoraphobic. I'd just like to think I'm efficient. Plus, friends on here are good looking and like to get naked. I'm a voyeur, so that's what we call a win-win where I come from. Next question, Does your user name mean something? Glad you asked. Yes it does. It's a reference to the ancient Greek legend of Diogenes. You see, during my early lurking period before officially joining, I found myself searching from guy to guy, trying to find people who were authentic. Now don't confuse that with necessarily virtuous (I'll leave it to the actual Diogenes to ferret out the honest men), but I do find myself drawn to the people who seem more "real." Next question is How has the experience been so far?" I would have to say I feel like alice in the proverbial sexual wonderland. I never knew there were so many variations on sexual expression, but I'm learning. My fetishes a.re pretty vanilla. I like verbal, i.e., dirty talk, which some of you have witnessed first hand in some of the chats (don't you love the anonymity of the internet?) and for what ever reason, I like guys wearing tops (esp. t-shirts) but naked from the waist down. Who knows where that comes from. Was that too much information? I can't believe I just asked that on cam4. And last question, Do you think you'll ever get on cam yourself? Well, I'm thinking about trying it at least once just to see how it feels for others. My clothes would stay solidly on and it's unlikely I'll show my face (trust me you're not missing much on either counts), but I feel it would be interesting to see what it's like (and no I won't show my feet either). So now on to the sex stuff, where you'll get to see how truly boring I am. If you by chance like what you've read here, feel free to stop by my blog at http://itsenoughtobeonyourway.blogspot.com/ for a little more insight into my day to day life.