Sex Questionnaire

Do you enjoy cyber-sex? We do,but only with women. Ladies always have an uncanny knack for creatively expressing sexuality.

Do you use sex toys? Other ppl are our sex toys

Do you enjoy oral sex? Oral sex is an ErisianKiss' forte.

Do you enjoy anal sex? no

Do you enjoy BDSM? DINGO: Oh, wicked, bad, naughty, evil ***t! Oh, she is a naughty person, and she must pay the penalty -- and here in Castle Anthrax, we have but one punishment for setting alight the grail-shaped beacon. You must tie her down on a bed and spank her! GIRLS: A spanking! A spanking! DINGO: You must spank her well. And after you have spanked her, you may deal with her as you like. And then, spank me. VARIOUS GIRLS: And spank me. And me. And me. DINGO: Yes, yes, you must give us all a good spanking! GIRLS: A spanking! A spanking! DINGO: And after the spanking, the oral sex. GIRLS: Oral sex! Oral sex! GALAHAD: Well, I could stay a BIT longer.

What do you look for in a sexual partner? Congratulations, my dearest unicorn, for finding the perfect couple to open you up to the marvelous world of group intimacy. As I wrote in my post, Can A Threesome Help You Find Your True Love, there are many single bi-girls who enjoy being intimate with couples. But you bring up an excellent question: How does a unicorn approach an attractive couple without freaking them out or damaging the friendship? 1. FIND OUT IF THE GIRL IS OPEN TO BI EXPERIENCES The first thing to do is take your female friend out for a drink and assess how open she is to bisexual experiences. (If you are closer to the male partner, you might want to have this conversation with him.) If you are not quite ready to tell her you are bi, you may want to talk about erotic books (like the Anne Rice Vampire Chronicles or if you are more literary, Henry Miller and Anais Nin) to get a sense of her openness. Maybe she saw Woody Allen™s new film, Vicky Christina Barcelona, where Scarlett Johansson, Penelope Cruz and Javier Bardem briefly live in a triad relationship. It does not take long to know if she is NOT bi, because if she is grossed out by these scenarios, I am sure she will tell you. 2. SHARE YOUR PREVIOUS EXPERIENCES TO GET A SENSE OF THE COUPLES OPENNESS Some girls may think they are straight until they hear about your previous adventures with another couple. A lot of female fear quickly turns to curiosity and fascination when someone they know, trust and love has experienced group sex. Think about the assumptions you had about threesomes before you experienced it firsthand. Share with the new couple that in your previous threesome you never felt used, were in love with the couple™s relationship, and had no idea it could be so loving, fun and drama-free. 3. NOT ALL GUYS ARE COMFORTABLE WITH GROUP SEX (SERIOUSLY!) I know this may come as a surprise to some readers but not all men are open to threesomes. Men, just like women, can be jealous, insecure and possessive. Don™t assume that it is a done deal if the female partner is into the threesome. Make sure that her man wants it just as much as she does. 4. ASK HER/HIM ABOUT THEIR UNEXPLORED FANTASIES A good way to get a sense of how open a couple is to being approached about a threesome is to ask them about their sexual fantasies. What naughty things have they done in the past? What naughty things would they like to do in the future? What fantasies have they masturbated to? Nothing turns people on more than talking about sex. Get them talking and the sexual energy will surge. Plus, if they say theyÃve always wanted a threesome, you may just be on your way to an unforgettable night. 5. SHARE YOUR STORY AND HELP HER SEE YOU WERE NOT EXPLOITED Once you know the couple is open to bisexuality, share your positive past experiences. Pornography has conditioned us to believe that threesomes are male-centered and about the guys pleasure. This makes some women hesitant to participate in group scenarios because they do not want to exploit other women. However, in a loving threesome, no one is exploited because all three participants share equal love and pleasure. For the group sex virgin, this is hard to imagine and understand. By sharing your threesome story, you help them to see how loving a group experience can be. You also become a leader because you are teaching that most porn does not represent bisexual culture. 6. DOES SHE KNOW YOU ARE ATTRACTED TO HER? An important secret about girls is they are always the last to know if another girl likes them. Because of this, they also fear that you are more attracted to their partner than them. Make sure she knows you are attracted to her. Girls want to feel special, so make sure to let her know how beautiful she is (and, if youÙre feeling confident, how much you want to kiss her.) 7. SHOW THAT SEX DID NOT HARM YOUR FRIENDSHIP WITH YOUR PREVIOUS LOVERS Another block to having sexual experiences with friends is they worry that the love affair will harm the friendship. What the group sex virgin does not know is that sex can enhance a friendship. Again, the best way to convince someone of this truth is to share your story and show that sex only made your friendship with the couple better. One thing to note here: if bringing up the fact that you are bi and interested in a threesome harms the friendship, you may have outgrown it. Although this is sad, letting go of some friends gives you space for new relationships with people who love you for who you really are. 8. OPENLY DISCUSS HOW SURPRISED YOU ARE BY HOW WONDERFUL IT IS TO BE BI As I have written before, Be The Bi-Girl You Want to Meet. When you are bisexual and proud, you will attract the right lovers to you. Trust your intuition. If it doesn't feel right to share your desires with certain friends, don't. If it feels like certain friends are potentially great lovers, trust it and expect great results.

Who is the one person you would most like to have sex with? If I wasn't Me; then it would be me as a mysterious stranger with really cute panties and matching 187 skillz with the Mouth Pleasure.

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